1/.... IN todays society does how much money the other has
play the bigger role than being really "in" love with them.

AS some request in their profile
"has to be financially secure"

Does money attract one first before actually fall in love.

Do many guard their money first before investing in love.

i think it's mostly that some have gotten taken, and can't go through that again. although i'm not looking, and i don't have it in my profile, i went through a $400,000.00 loss with someone in four years, and another $150.000.00 with her before that. i can't go through it again. i don't like starting over when they are now doing great because of me. i'm not bitter, just careful now.

Nothing at all wrong with requiring that someone be financially stable. i.e:responsible.

haha Not that I am, I'm 49 and still wondering what I want to be when I grow up. But I do own my own homes and a bit of land here and there. hmmmm...wonder if I paid those property taxes? lol

In reality however, no matter what someone thinks their needs are, they end up with who makes them feel good for the greatest percentage of time. Mostly, that that freakin' low-life bum who never worked a day in his life. lol

As long as we got these candles, there's nothing we can't handle.

hmm...this dude 85 with a bunch of Harleys. Man, give me your secret. I'm 49 and still crying over having to leave my 59' panhead in the middle of the desert...like 10 years ago. And every time I save up enough to buy another, something happens in my life, family, or exes that takes it away. lol

But Im not stressin' out.

But hey...450 GRAND! F**K!! Man, you need to let ME introduce you to someone.

i'm downsizing right now, and getting ready to get a smaller home and with this monster house, be set again, but it's gonna take that, and a shift in investing, but i'll be very secure, and in this economy, it's rare, so the hounds will be out looking in desperate times, and be more crafty than the african lotteries in your e-mails when they first came out....or those next of kin millions they promise you.

thanks for the vote of confidence man, but i'm done. it's mr. midnight now, friends with benefits and lots of travel. this old man played one, too many times, and it's time to concentrate on two inventions instead of ltr's and it would be unfair to a woman to put her through being gone for weeks, possibly months of travel, then more weeks. i'm alone, but not lonely. but you rock man, thanks!

Hey brother, if you're 85 and still riding and able to talk about someone gettin' over on ya for anything, much less a lot, you're cool with me. Richard Pryor once said "You don't grow old being no fool" and thats a fact I've known a long time. Plus..Nawleeens man. I'm a LA guy myself. ummm..They call me Yankee down in LaFourch & Terrebone parish but its still LA. Different breed that the rest of the world. People from aywhere else just CAINT understand!!! AND...every girl I ever loved...even in NYC was a Cajun. Best and most beautiful ever. Ride on Mister and good luck!

BTW, if you're an inventor and need some 3-D modeling, patent-drawings, software for engineering or electronics (Digtal/Analog. TTL/DTL/PIC/PAL/EEPROM, I'm your guy. Seriously.

yes, i do need a three cad! and thanks for the compliments!!!!! i'll ride with ya anytime, and panhead? one of my absolute favorite bikes!!!