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Topic: this girl i have know for about a month......please give me
kirk443's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:39 PM
she is a neighbor and when i 1st met her things were normal, i would go over, we would have fun ect ect....
now lately she has been demanding money from me just cause.. and get's mad when i say no. she knows i have money and she told me for the record she does not like when i say no. "still need $13. tonite. if you can bring it, call me. if not, I will probably not talk to you again, because you lied. the choice is yours. g'bye" that is what she last wrote to me. I do not even know what she is talking about when i said I lied??? oh well. I do not know what to do . i gave her some money over the past couple weeks and do not want to keep giving a girl money that i do not even know that well. heck when i told her i do not even give my own family money or relatives money yet i give it to you she hung the phone up on me. that was last week. what do you suggest i do?

kirk443's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:40 PM
in my heading i meant to say, please give me advice

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:41 PM
Keep paying sounds like cheap slaphead Nevermind

kirk443's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:43 PM

Keep paying sounds like cheap slaphead Nevermind
it just bugs me cause for the 1st two weeks i knew her she never asked for money

mssilverfox's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:43 PM
RUN as fast as you can!!

Holly4459's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:43 PM
Can I borrow $5 bucks?:tongue:

misstina2's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:45 PM
flowerforyou Just quit calling herflowerforyou

kirk443's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:45 PM

RUN as fast as you can!!
it is just annoying cause i do not understand when she told me that i lied.

no photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:46 PM
Really? You are asking us?
I believe you KNOW what you should do.


Christinacospgs's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:46 PM
Geez, what a loser! "Use and abuse" sounds rampant with her.

Medhunter's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:46 PM
Smiley,

You are looking for someone that wants and desires to be with you, not your money. Both from a friend and a girlfriend standpoint that criteria will hold up. So, if someone is putting money as their manditory criteria for being your friend they are not nor will they ever be your friend. Anyone that starts out a relaionship commanding money WILL NOT change. So, make yourself unavailable and go out and find some real friends that enjoys your company. Not your wallets company.

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:48 PM
smitten Marry hersmitten

bgeorge's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:48 PM
stop dwelling...she's a user so be glad she doesn't talk to you anymoreflowerforyou

kirk443's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:49 PM

Smiley,

You are looking for someone that wants and desires to be with you, not your money. Both from a friend and a girlfriend standpoint that criteria will hold up. So, if someone is putting money as their manditory criteria for being your friend they are not nor will they ever be your friend. Anyone that starts out a relaionship commanding money WILL NOT change. So, make yourself unavailable and go out and find some real friends that enjoys your company. Not your wallets company. That is hard, "finding real freinds" especially since i have no job, no car, and living with dad.

kirk443's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:49 PM

smitten Marry hersmitten
she is black i do not think that would go over well with my dadlaugh

feralcatlady's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:49 PM
Tell her no and put on your man pants.....


You don't have to give her money....and if that is a condition for her I would tell her to go suck a rock.

kirk443's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:51 PM

Smiley,

You are looking for someone that wants and desires to be with you, not your money. Both from a friend and a girlfriend standpoint that criteria will hold up. So, if someone is putting money as their manditory criteria for being your friend they are not nor will they ever be your friend. Anyone that starts out a relaionship commanding money WILL NOT change. So, make yourself unavailable and go out and find some real friends that enjoys your company. Not your wallets company.
That is hard, "finding real freinds" especially since i have no job, no car, and living with dad.

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:52 PM


smitten Marry hersmitten
she is black i do not think that would go over well with my dadlaugh



Ya that wouldn't fly in my house either

Holly4459's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:52 PM
how about $3 bucks?

kirk443's photo
Sat 04/11/09 04:53 PM

Can I borrow $5 bucks?:tongue:
HAHA very funny

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