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      Anyone else deal with this?  I didn't think I did till my gf fired off a few commitment questions tonight on the phone.  After being married young and now going through a divorce after eight years, I think I've been scarred in this area.  Maybe my gf is right & I really don't know what the he11 I really want.  
      
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        Edited by
        Jess642
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        Sat 04/11/09 02:42 AM
       
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      Welcome to my world.... wanna split the panic 50/50?
 
  I don't know for you, but I know for me, I earnt my challenges with commitment...my last words to my fella/bestest friend, One Great Love when we parted, was, "When you are ready come Home." He informs me he is coming home..*gulp*! There is nothing I can offer other than, do you know the number for the Witless Protection Program?  | 
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      Your perfectly normal. You just have to be fair and honest with any potential partners so they dont fall too deep in.
 
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      I'm with Jim.  We all have baggage based on our experience.  If you are open, honest and own it, you will be able to move past it.
     
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      been looking for that word "commitment" for the past 17 years of my life....i dont know and loosing any hope now  
      where to find it!    
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      I would like to commit quite a few men!!! 
        
Please pass the handcuffs!!!   
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     Your perfectly normal. You just have to be fair and honest with any potential partners so they dont fall too deep in. I agree, I myself was married once & will not do it again, that does not mean I will not commit to someone.  | 
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