Women have always fawned over musicians because they have passion. Are you willing to be "the other passion" in his life?

ummm...

Run. Hide.



NOW.



t minus 8 days and counting!!

(((Lee)))

will be thinking of you...
lovers and friends...

Sweetheart.... I have discovered I am the 'music' in his life!


it is one of his passions.... we share a gazillion others.... the Arts in every form, our people, our country, our world, our loves, everything...

I know from the outside looking in, this is groupy stuff, but ummm... there's no 'dazzle' involved... there's 7 years of history... from AWAY from the microphone, and slide guitar...

I spent the other day dusting, cleaning, and cobwebbing the inside and outside of the house... when I told him, he laughed!

He said have you got the paint for the picket fence yet???

I laughed...

It's great that we know each other so well... and yes, he's my bestest mate in the world...

I have a reprieve... it's the 25th...*gulp*...but it is also ANZAC Day...(like your memorial day)...which means it's a public holiday...

so the removalists don't get here with His Lordships' stuff until Tuesday...I have three more days.... (it's Saturday here)

I am so lost here

Jess, if this is truly how you feel, then you just need to be honest with him. The issue with men is they sometimes have egos so be prepared for him to withdraw a little if he perceives that you are "rejecting" him. But if you are not in a serious relationship place right now, then you aren't and it would not be fair to either one of you to foul this up. You are still your own person and you dont jump for him and you are not at his beck and call. Good luck and like another mentioned, take a deep breath and think this through carefully. Make sure you are fully in control when you confront him.

If what you have now is a beautiful friendship then keep it that way. Don't hyperventilate thinking about the future, just go with what feels right, right now.

when standing on the cliffs of love and watching you ballance precariously on the edge of decision......


PUSH

*watches you fall smileing all the way down*

haha that was fun

Jess
You are by far one of my favorite people on here. You are a smart intelligent woman who knows her wants and needs. Sounds like he doesn't want the "lights" because you aren't there. Go for it girl --life is too short. After 7 yrs I'm sure he knows the type of woman you are -- probably the reason he loves you.
Only you know whats right for you --

Love, Light and Peace to You Sister

a women never know love, until she TRUST HERSELF WITH AND UNTO EACH BREATH, and a man that love her, will respect her AND THIS, and ALWAYS DEMAND SHE 'FOLLOW HERSELF', and trust herself, as NO MAN WORTHY OF TRUST, WILL "EVER" SAY TRUST ME???

trust is earned, BY THE BEHOLDER of word and deeds???

nothing that DEMAND OR IMPLY ONE SHOULD TRUST IT, is worthy of trust???

if anything see it's own limitations, it so see not to EVER garauntee ANYTHING, as there are many more outside facts than just 'self', that enter into reality from the "outside"???

IF ONE FOLLOW IT'S PASSION, THAN IF THERE IS EQUALITY, IT DEMAND ANOTHER FOLLOW IT'S "OWN" PASSION AS WELL, with "no excuses" BASED ON WHY AND HOW DOING SUCH WILL EFFECT ITSELF, and it's own happiness???

each ONE in the universe is ONE, and no happiness exist, unless HAPPINESS is founded in each as ONE, and not basing it on another, as this is but to base a reality on what another MIGHT DO, which is to base it on illusions???

true love is no garauntee's of anything, and still embracing another anyways???

mutual SELF WANT, AND DESIRE OF "TWO", AS EQUAL "SEPERATE" ENTITIES, is the only true friendship which does not control another for IT'S OWN HAPPINESS, which be the only thing that allow true freedom and confidence in self, which is the only true HAPPINESS THAT EXIST???

peace

it's not as bad as the Swine flu!

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090424/ap_on_he_me/med_swine_flu

I'm still lost here. What does your husband think of all of this?

He is the husband!!!!!!!!!

Oh! So you guys separated for his career but now he is thinking he wants so come back full time? That would appear to be an entirely different kettle of fish. I didnt realize that either.

it's ok... it is a convoluted thread, that has wove it's way back to the source...When I created the thread, I guess it was a shout out to those that know the intimate aspects of this relationship with the One great Love (Dan, but not a member of this site)...

I apologise for leaving most in the dark....and that may make sense why some are just saying go for it...while others who don't have the full history, are hesitant...

No problem. Just do what you feel is right. I think sometimes in situations like this we have already decided but its good to get that reassurance or positive reinforcement. I wish you luck with whatever you choose to move forward with and he should respect your wishes. It sounds like you two are very close and there is a lot of history there.

<------ Reaches under the bed and pulls Jess out by her legs and shouts ............... It's the 25th today!!!!!!

Bonzai! Bonzai! Bonzai!!



Hope everybody is having a great....D Day!

AHHHH! Makes sense to me NOW!