Topic: Way too Serious
cuppy59's photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:27 AM

Ive never really noticed any drama here but maybe thats just me smile2


You are charmed one, sweetie! :wink:

cuppy59's photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:28 AM



If you were around, I would tell ya, damn..."Let's have a drink and laugh till we can't breathe! Here's too ya Girl!drinker

Let's not allow distance to stop us from enjoying a nice cold one :banana:




Heck....I'll pop open a bottle of champagne and share it with ya anytime. :banana:

talldub's photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:28 AM

The anger and disappointment that I see made me very sad.



Isn't it just a reflection of the real world? Lets face it, no matter where you go, there are good and bad people, and good people having bad days and so on. There is no Utopia, anger and hurt will always cause people to be nasty.

cuppy59's photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:29 AM





We did have a really good time playing in the threads, especially in the person above threads. It was a great way just to share some laughs and blow off steam, flirt a little light heartedly and just have fun.









But for all my joking and cutting up serious is who I am.....So sue me laugh


Ok...be serious with me....I can take a punch in the arm and a beer poured in my lap as long as your ready for a food fight...hehehehe



Pffffft~ *pushes Cuppy in the jello pool* Food fights are so impersonal....let's get Durty~


Hey now....It takes 47 large boxes of jello to fill an average tub...How do you suppose we work this one out...I suggest we not use cherry. It stains....lmao



I vote that Pats has to fill the pool and we get lime jello it matches my eyes and you know how I love to be coordinated~ rofl



laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

franshade's photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:30 AM




If you were around, I would tell ya, damn..."Let's have a drink and laugh till we can't breathe! Here's too ya Girl!drinker

Let's not allow distance to stop us from enjoying a nice cold one :banana:




Heck....I'll pop open a bottle of champagne and share it with ya anytime. :banana:


WTG!!!!!!!!!!!! I will do the same, but will open a poor man's champagne (ice cold Corona) after work :banana:

cuppy59's photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:32 AM


The anger and disappointment that I see made me very sad.



Isn't it just a reflection of the real world? Lets face it, no matter where you go, there are good and bad people, and good people having bad days and so on. There is no Utopia, anger and hurt will always cause people to be nasty.


I would prefer to surround myself with positive people. If we just accept things the way they are, we are just giving up. I'm going to fight for fun and keep striving to make You and others laugh if it kills me...flowerforyou

cuppy59's photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:33 AM





If you were around, I would tell ya, damn..."Let's have a drink and laugh till we can't breathe! Here's too ya Girl!drinker

Let's not allow distance to stop us from enjoying a nice cold one :banana:




Heck....I'll pop open a bottle of champagne and share it with ya anytime. :banana:


WTG!!!!!!!!!!!! I will do the same, but will open a poor man's champagne (ice cold Corona) after work :banana:


Heck....that costs more than the bubbly I drink...slaphead

cuppy59's photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:37 AM

Yes,everyone is right...I am probally, still considered new...
But , when I first came here I used to joke on the forums..and Loved it,...That is what I am going to go back to doing, it was alot of fun....:tongue: :banana: drinks glasses smokin

Being to serious..just causes confusion.


So what do ya want to do...We can have a virtual picnic with the kids during the day and then romp in a virtual tiki bar later in the evening!

talldub's photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:38 AM



The anger and disappointment that I see made me very sad.



Isn't it just a reflection of the real world? Lets face it, no matter where you go, there are good and bad people, and good people having bad days and so on. There is no Utopia, anger and hurt will always cause people to be nasty.


I would prefer to surround myself with positive people. If we just accept things the way they are, we are just giving up. I'm going to fight for fun and keep striving to make You and others laugh if it kills me...flowerforyou

I tend to do the same with people, all of the more toxic ones are gone from my life. But then I get to thinking, maybe the problem isn't that they were not positive, just hurt, angry, and it was the only way that they knew how to reach out.

I'm all for fun and laughter - just ask my imaginary friends!

cuppy59's photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:40 AM

flowers I totally agree *SIS*:heart: Hope you come back,and join the FuNz:banana: :banana: :banana: drinks flowers


Hey...Just keep being the sister you are. Too bad most people don't know you the way I know you. They would be shocked at how wonderful you can be to others. Just don't give away the store, please!!!smooched :heart: smooched

no photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:42 AM
I heartily agree with you, cuppy. You hit the nail on the head. Everyone is so uptight, they forgot how to have fun. Thank God I have two beautiful girls to remind me what innocent joy is all about.:heart: I have always been a silly kid masquerading as a responsible adult anyway. Being with them gives me an excuse to do so in public without getting stares.rofl

OSHERRYJUST4U's photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:42 AM


flowers I totally agree *SIS*:heart: Hope you come back,and join the FuNz:banana: :banana: :banana: drinks flowers


Hey...Just keep being the sister you are. Too bad most people don't know you the way I know you. They would be shocked at how wonderful you can be to others. Just don't give away the store, please!!!smooched :heart: smooched
Gee...am I that givingrofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl You are sooo right about me:heart: drinks

no photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:42 AM


Yes,everyone is right...I am probally, still considered new...
But , when I first came here I used to joke on the forums..and Loved it,...That is what I am going to go back to doing, it was alot of fun....:tongue: :banana: drinks glasses smokin

Being to serious..just causes confusion.


So what do ya want to do...We can have a virtual picnic with the kids during the day and then romp in a virtual tiki bar later in the evening!


Sounds wonderful......Count me in...Again.....:tongue: bigsmile :banana: :banana: drinks drinks smokin

franshade's photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:43 AM






If you were around, I would tell ya, damn..."Let's have a drink and laugh till we can't breathe! Here's too ya Girl!drinker

Let's not allow distance to stop us from enjoying a nice cold one :banana:




Heck....I'll pop open a bottle of champagne and share it with ya anytime. :banana:


WTG!!!!!!!!!!!! I will do the same, but will open a poor man's champagne (ice cold Corona) after work :banana:


Heck....that costs more than the bubbly I drink...slaphead


laugh there are just some things that I won't scrimp out on drinks

keep the positivity flowing and dodge all those negatives vibes!!!!

DaveyB's photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:45 AM

Why does there have to be so much drama in the forums. When I joined, I had so much fun, knocking around, telling funny stories, flirting for the sake of fun, making new and lasting friendships and above all using my time on JSH/Mingle as an escape for excitement and adventure.

I haven't been around much since October. The anger and disappointment that I see made me very sad.

I hope that those with broken hearts will mend, those that are unhappy find a moment to unleash a smile or two, those that seek a fulfilling relationship, find one and embrace it, and those that enjoy meeting people of different races and cultures, learn from their new friends as I have.

Always remember that when someone writes something, it can be interpreted in so many different ways. I rarely take anything personal, and why should I. Most of you don't know me, so you don't have a clue about what makes me tick, or for that matter what makes anyone tick.

I just want to have fun, put a smile on someones face and project a positive attitude in everything I may say or do.


I hear that cuppy. People get so wrapped up in people and events that they don't actually know a thing about. Seems very sad to me. I don't worry about what any one posts about me, as you say they don't know me so who cares.

cuppy59's photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:45 AM




The anger and disappointment that I see made me very sad.



Isn't it just a reflection of the real world? Lets face it, no matter where you go, there are good and bad people, and good people having bad days and so on. There is no Utopia, anger and hurt will always cause people to be nasty.


I would prefer to surround myself with positive people. If we just accept things the way they are, we are just giving up. I'm going to fight for fun and keep striving to make You and others laugh if it kills me...flowerforyou

I tend to do the same with people, all of the more toxic ones are gone from my life. But then I get to thinking, maybe the problem isn't that they were not positive, just hurt, angry, and it was the only way that they knew how to reach out.

I'm all for fun and laughter - just ask my imaginary friends!


We all are hurt at one point in our lives. No reason to contaminate the rest of the world. Knowing how to react to those that are reaching out is a very valuable characteristic. Listening first and responding when needed has always worked for me.

I'm an Irish Chicka myself and my leprechaun friend told me to follow the rainbow. I'm not looking for a pot of gold, just the pot to swim in...hehehehe

DaveyB's photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:45 AM

Ahh remember the Mirror run thread Cuppy? Those were good times back in those days herelaugh


They are still around just a little harder to find :angry: drinker

zman000081's photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:45 AM
<------------ Here ya go Cuppy laugh laugh laugh

Remembers all the fun and looks to have so much more bigsmile

DaveyB's photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:47 AM

the forums are supposed to be fun....except the debate ones lol.


Are you kidding... those can be the most fun laugh. Haven't participated in a while though. I get tired of those who get bent when they can't win an argument.

talldub's photo
Fri 04/10/09 09:49 AM


We all are hurt at one point in our lives. No reason to contaminate the rest of the world. Knowing how to react to those that are reaching out is a very valuable characteristic. Listening first and responding when needed has always worked for me.

I'm an Irish Chicka myself and my leprechaun friend told me to follow the rainbow. I'm not looking for a pot of gold, just the pot to swim in...hehehehe

I want to have a rational conversation but my hangover is too bad to allow reason and logic. I went swimming in a vat of Erdinger last night, 'twas fun!