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Topic: Whats your opinion
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Sat 04/04/09 07:30 PM
I would certainly explore he goals and understand what she wants out of life before you go futher into this. From your scenario, it sounds like she is looking to hook up for a free ride and you have to cover your behind first and foremost.

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Sat 04/04/09 07:31 PM
Ok, i was over thinking things. If shes not willing to pull her weight, shes not worth the time.


Thanks for listening while i needed to vent!

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Sat 04/04/09 07:31 PM
run.dont look back

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Sat 04/04/09 07:33 PM
Im a free bird! Ill spread my wings and fly away!

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Sat 04/04/09 07:34 PM

OK, here's my story.

I have been friends with this girl for the past three years. We haven't had many opportunities to see each other to our lack of a car "very soon to change on my end." She lives about an hour south of me. My thing is that I like a girl who is motivated in life, like not sitting around the house. This girl is not working or going to school. I don't want it to be to the point that im the soul provider in the house. Maybe i'm over thinking things. Do you think its worth perusing with the 1 hour drive to go on a date and the motivation issue?


You've already answered your own question, babe!

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Sat 04/04/09 07:35 PM
I guess i needed to vent more then anything to clear my head.

galendgirl's photo
Sat 04/04/09 07:36 PM

I guess i needed to vent more then anything to clear my head.


Your friends at M2 are here for ya :)flowerforyou

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Sat 04/04/09 07:39 PM
It helped a good deal. Thanks guys!

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Sat 04/04/09 07:44 PM
perhaps you'll be that motivation she needs..just a fe encouraging words beb.
if not and she isnt prepared to be mature, dont look back.
at least you tried.

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Sat 04/04/09 07:49 PM

The thing is that this girl and i get along famously, no drama, and we connect on just about everything. We have some differences, but thats natural. Maybe im just over reacting.


Of course you get along famously...She has nothing else to do but make sure she says the perfect thing to you..

I am going to give you some tough love I gave my son a long long time ago...

Begin as you plan on continuing. Come on you don't say how old she is I am willing to bet out of high school, she has no job, no drive or ambition to make anything of herself. I say Run Forest Run!!!!....

Ask yourself these questions, How is supporting her now and do you want to take their place. IF so then by all means go for it.

I also think you have so much going for you, and she doesn't that you could be sucked into something before you know how to get out of it. What happens if she has baby then what???

My advice is to go out and find someone worthy of you.

Good luck

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Sat 04/04/09 08:05 PM
ok, i just got done talking to her and here is what she said on aim

"i dont see things working out.....we're just at different phases right now"

Problem solved

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Sat 04/04/09 09:36 PM
Phew for you then...Someone great will come your way...

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Sat 04/04/09 09:41 PM

OK, here's my story.

I have been friends with this girl for the past three years. We haven't had many opportunities to see each other to our lack of a car "very soon to change on my end." She lives about an hour south of me. My thing is that I like a girl who is motivated in life, like not sitting around the house. This girl is not working or going to school. I don't want it to be to the point that im the soul provider in the house. Maybe i'm over thinking things. Do you think its worth perusing with the 1 hour drive to go on a date and the motivation issue?


What do you like about her? weight things out! if you dislike more things than like about her then there are pleanty of fish in the sea! Some people can change most stick to their old habbits because they are hard to change. But that does not mean habbits are unchangable!

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Sat 04/04/09 09:43 PM

ok, i just got done talking to her and here is what she said on aim

"i dont see things working out.....we're just at different phases right now"

Problem solved


lol Im all late with my comment hahaha!

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Sun 04/05/09 08:19 AM
zach sch88-- only if she puts out. then its only worth 2-3 trips at best!!!!! **** getting tied down especially to someone not pulling weight

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Sun 04/05/09 08:26 AM
Don't let the little head do the thinking for the big head.

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