Topic: when is it time to let go? | |
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me and my ex/sumtime girlfriend constantly fight then get back 2gether. i love her but when is the point when you realize its never gonna get any better? like she fights about things that happened a year ago, and she wants me to change so much about me; my friends,my hobbies,and just my general personality. now normally if a girl did this i would be gone. i mean not to be concieded but im a good looking guy and great personality and never had any problems with girls so its not like im desperate. but why do i find it so hard to let go? any advice for me?
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let go!
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It may be best to just end it & move on, it could get worse if you let it continue.
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Run forest run !!!
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yea i think so and all my friends tell me the same but i just cant seem to do it. damn!! only a girl could bother you this bad lol
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it is probably because you are in love with her...hate to say it but that is what it sounds like to me
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So why hide. Post your pictures
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Edited by
dawnyhi
on
Fri 04/03/09 07:02 AM
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start with a new hobby goals and find out who you are and learn to love yourself... try not to start a new relationship until you are completely at a stage where you are glad they are alive but nothing they do affects you...apathy... good luck |
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No one should have to change for someone else. Thats not love.
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True love accepts you the way you are! You cannot change others you can only change yourself. Did she fall in love with you or a picture of who she wants you to be?
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Why do you love her?
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I didn't see where he stated he loves her...Me thinks he love the "warm place to put it"
Why do you love her? |
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thanks for the advice. and i aint hiding i just joined the other day and i didnt post a pic yet and wasnt sure if i should
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thanks for the advice. and i aint hiding i just joined the other day and i didnt post a pic yet and wasnt sure if i should go for it we need more man meat to look at |
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i love her but when
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and if you read my first post i did state that i love her. and it has nothing to do with 'a warm place to put it'. but when we met she loved who i was and now she wants it totally dif, and im not sure with my life that a could change and be happy
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oops
i love her but when
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oops i love her but when
Ahhh I've a memory like a steel trap, ddn... OP, have you thought that maybe you love her, but the her she was when you first met? Not the current "her"? |
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yep and I stepped right in.....
in my experience....people don't change...they just reveal.... oops i love her but when
Ahhh I've a memory like a steel trap, ddn... OP, have you thought that maybe you love her, but the her she was when you first met? Not the current "her"? |
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yea your probably rite. you are wise, lol. ijust need to sit down and make a decision, thanx 4 the help
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