I'm afraid I've become way too desperate. Eeep!

Is there a specific reason you say that?

Desperate? At 18? That seems to be a wee bit far-fetched to me...

You don't know desperation until you hit your mid-thirties. Now THAT'S desperation.

I've noticed that I've started settling for guys that aren't really interested in ME in some of my more recent "relationships". Idk. I don't think there's any one specific reason.

moof-I resemble that remark

idk...






we lost touch

Me too.

Time will tell for you.
Knowing that you feel that you have lived a life time and you have.
As the years push through your life you will get to know your self better and the kind of people that you get along with.
At this point in time you will find that person that will knock your socks right off your feet. this is when you will say to your self. (You will say self) Life is good. We know that you want it your way now but life is not a fast love restaurant.

I want you now, I don't want to wait
My soul has yearned, my heart has ached

My body is numb, waiting for your touch
For you are the one it wants so much

My lips are cold, wanting to taste
Everything you are, can not be replaced

My eyes are closed, wishing to behold
The beauty that you are waiting to unfold

Holding my breathe, eager for your scent
Every moment without you is pure torment

The sweetest song sounds nothing to me
Only your voice can set me free

From these chains that bind, keeping me lifeless and still
You are the only one I'm anxious to feel

I have waited so long, I've wanted forever
You are the one I've longed to endeavor

Soon you'll be near, soon is to long
If patience is a virtue, I want to be wrong

I'll make you mine, I'll make you need
Soon you will know how it feels to be me

Try 40's and the only place to meet people is at work and at work you are surrounded by hot 20 yr olds!


Eh. the desparation fades it was more like panic...

The best advise I can give is to just step back and be happy just being you.Surround yourself with great friends and explore things that interest u.Before you know it you are not only ok with being single,but you are happy that way.Next thing you know a really great guy is asking you out that you are really into.Hey, it happened to me....never settle just so u are not alone.

Girl you aren't desperate for a relationship at 18

You NEED hot steamy all night sex until you can't take it anymore. And I mean literally can't take it anymore. Then wake up and do it again the next day till you are so sore you can't even imagine ever doing it again.

Then you will be fine and wont look so hard for a relationship. You just haven't had that "good lovin" yet. Thatis what you are looking for girl.

Late 30's early 40's. THERE is desperation....lmao

You just need to go out and have fun.. Life ain't that serious! YET!
Go out and live a little.



cuz most guys your age, are not interested in anything serious.
Damn...I wish I was 18 again..FUN TIMES:P

I wouldn't go back to being 18 if my existence depended on it.

I'm with u on that An I'll add, not even if Colin Farrell was promised to me as a sex slave