I have met someone and I really like her. She originally (believe it or not) Sent me a message on myspace saying she liked my smile and one thing led to another.... We exchanged phone numbers started calling each other and eventually we met (A night a f***ed up entirely, but she kept calling me).

Long Story short, We went out the first time, very casual hanging out. The 2nd time, she invited me to go to a local hot spot with her and we danced and generally had a great time (and she even gave me a little peck on the lips). Then last night we met just to hang out have a couple drinks and just talked.

I really like her. And I think it's obvious to her that I like her... But we havn't really talked about anything more than just random everyday things.

Should I be happy that she has come out with me at all? I mean is that a sign that she is interested in at least the thought that maybe we could be together??

I am so bad at this. I want to just throw it all out there, because that is the kind of person I am, but I don't want to mess it up.

At what point do I throw it out there and tell her exactly what I feel?

(PS... this friendship is around it's 3 month mark)

How about....relax and enjoy the journey?

She knows you like her.... otherwise you would blow her off when she asks you out.

Just chill...enjoy the moment...the rest will unfold however it does.

I'm no expert on relationships that's for sure. Just go with it for now and let it play it's course. Keep talking and seeing each other, you guys will know whether it's meant to be or not.

Sounds like fun to me.
Take some time and enjoy it.

When did you get so dang clever????


We NEVER agree!!!

Is this a trick??

I am enjoying it, don't get me wrong. But (in your opinion) is it probable that she "likes" me too and that I am just worrying myself?

I'm sorry to be to weird about this... I have NEVER dated... I got married young... and when I divorced I was right in another relationship.

I have never in my life dated a woman that I wasn't already "with" ... sad huh... I'm like a little kid here.

I guess i'm getting wiser in my old age lol.

It's natural to worry. Relax and have fun.

Women dont hang out, and call up to go out with people they don't like.

If you were a booty call, you would know it by the bruises by now...

Just relax and enjoy the ride-

time will tell what happens with the both of you- don't over analyze- just go with it. if it is supposed to happen ---it will

good luck to you!

Thank you

It just kills me not knowing where she "is" in her thinking. I need to calm those thoughts and let it happen. Orr not happen either way.

... and if it were I booty call... I'd think I would definitely know that... I guess it depends on how drunk she got me.

she likes you or she would not hang with you.

women tend to not hang with the guys they don't really enjoy...

If you have been talking to her for 3 months and gone out several times, I would tend to think that she is interested. It sounds like she is a nice lady who is taking her time, you don't want to freak her out. If she has her head on straight, she is probably taking her time, investing it in you, getting to know you better and liking what she is seeing/hearing.

If you rush her, it might be a dealbreaker.

My advice to you is to ..............................just breathe. Relax, let it ride and see where it goes. Your eyes, smile, laugh, body language and personality will shine through and she will hear what you are not saying out loud.

Worry equals lack of faith. Now relax young grasshopper

HAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!

Listen to us lot!

We all sound so grown up!!!!!!!

Just relax and explore each other, the relationship thing will appear with no effort if you two are right for each other. Same thing happened to me ( Myspace ), funny how you can meet more people on a non-dating site than on the dating ones....

Most people would say go with the flow...which would be good for awhile but eventually it has to come out about how you feel about each other...it's called communication. If you don't talk about it frankly and honestly, eventually one or the both of you will get frustrated waiting. And an end will come...sooner or later, or it will go to the next level. If an end comes you just lost that time simply by not communicating for fear of the unknown. I say put it out there, take a chance...never know she may be waiting on you to take the initiative.

take your time.Its obvious she likes you and vise versa or you both wouldn't continue communication.Just let things happen,see where it goes,you will know when the time is right

Join the club, dude. I am in the same situation myself.

I am utterly clueless about what should and shouldn't be done.

I think he is worried if he is in the "friend" zone..........Ok you say she gave you a peck on the lips. Well has she tried to kiss you at all since. Has it been more of a peck. A kiss will tell you alot.