Topic: Reality vs. Fantasy
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Mon 03/30/09 05:58 PM






grumble So your telling me that your not mickey mousegrumble

Oh well you seem ok this far flowerforyou



What I'm saying is that while most of the people are real the images they construct, both for themselves and others, are not. This is essentially an adult fantasy playground.

Oh, and thanks. You seem okay too... laugh


Wanna play on the marry-go-round with me :wink:


Well I tried sad2



No I prefer the rollercoaster.




The Marry-Go-Round is the ride of the devil. I'd prefer being locked into a room and forced to listen to Barry Manilow music for ten straight hours than get on that ride again.


Well never seen a roller coaster on a playground amusement park yes, we could always have a nice swing

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Mon 03/30/09 05:59 PM





I got fooled once and, based on all the other stories I read about - from people I know and trust in real life - there are many people who are fake, and live a life of a lie online.

Therefore, my rule of thumb is to think that everyone is a phony until I am proven otherwise.


Believe it. She did it to me! She forced me to cam with her before she believed I was real. We've since met in person twice.


I can't tell you what she made me do

but she believes I'm plenty real now :D


Did a little plumbing, didja.


she made me fix breakfast wearing nothing but an apron and a sailor hat


I have a very strong urge to ask if Little Smokies were involved....

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Mon 03/30/09 06:00 PM






I got fooled once and, based on all the other stories I read about - from people I know and trust in real life - there are many people who are fake, and live a life of a lie online.

Therefore, my rule of thumb is to think that everyone is a phony until I am proven otherwise.


Believe it. She did it to me! She forced me to cam with her before she believed I was real. We've since met in person twice.


I can't tell you what she made me do

but she believes I'm plenty real now :D


Did a little plumbing, didja.


she made me fix breakfast wearing nothing but an apron and a sailor hat


I have a very strong urge to ask if Little Smokies were involved....


"little"?

would you call a crocodile a lizard?

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Mon 03/30/09 06:02 PM







I got fooled once and, based on all the other stories I read about - from people I know and trust in real life - there are many people who are fake, and live a life of a lie online.

Therefore, my rule of thumb is to think that everyone is a phony until I am proven otherwise.


Believe it. She did it to me! She forced me to cam with her before she believed I was real. We've since met in person twice.


I can't tell you what she made me do

but she believes I'm plenty real now :D


Did a little plumbing, didja.


she made me fix breakfast wearing nothing but an apron and a sailor hat


I have a very strong urge to ask if Little Smokies were involved....


"little"?

would you call a crocodile a lizard?


As easily as calling King Kong a monkey.

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Mon 03/30/09 06:03 PM
by the way, did she tell you that we're gonna be in Saginaw next week?

on the 6th and 7th (my birthday too)

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Mon 03/30/09 06:03 PM
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Mon 03/30/09 06:05 PM
Yup, yup! It all depends on finances. This economy is kickin' my ass just like everyone else's.

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Mon 03/30/09 06:07 PM

Yup, yup! It all depends on finances. This economy is kickin' my ass just like everyone else's.


well good, I'll keep my fingers crossed

I'll spring for dinner

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 03/30/09 06:11 PM
So forget all that you see
It's not reality, it's just a fantasy

Can't you see what this crazy life is doin' to me

Life is just a fantasy
Can you live this fantasy life
Life is just a fantasy
Can you live this fantasy life



Aldo Novadrinker

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Mon 03/30/09 06:13 PM
AHHHHHHH!!!!

get out of my head!


life is just a fantasy can you live a fantasy life...

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Mon 03/30/09 06:13 PM


we all have alittle fantasy in one way or another

but for the most ive met people that are true and live in the real world here

and i wouldnt trade them for the world





I've met a few from these sites that are indeed as advertised, but the large percentage have not been who they claim.


I've been ruminating on this ever since I read a thread the other day where several people thought an accidental meeting of another member in the "real" world would be awkward and embarrassing.

The reason I keep coming back to is because upon meeting, the fantasy bubble would have to burst.


i understand where your coming from i guess i just want to belive the best in everyone how ever you have a good point

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Mon 03/30/09 06:21 PM

I thought your favorite band was JOURNEY!!! rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl oops




Hmmm, locked in a room forced to listen to Journey non-stop for ten hours or get get married again......


Can I get married in shorts and t-shirt this time?

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Mon 03/30/09 06:23 PM


I thought your favorite band was JOURNEY!!! rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl oops




Hmmm, locked in a room forced to listen to Journey non-stop for ten hours or get get married again......


Can I get married in shorts and t-shirt this time?


oops offtopic Can I get married in the nude?

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Mon 03/30/09 06:27 PM



I thought your favorite band was JOURNEY!!! rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl oops




Hmmm, locked in a room forced to listen to Journey non-stop for ten hours or get get married again......


Can I get married in shorts and t-shirt this time?


oops offtopic Can I get married in the nude?




Geez, this really is a fantasy world. love

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Mon 03/30/09 06:36 PM

I've been ruminating on this ever since I read a thread the other day where several people thought an accidental meeting of another member in the "real" world would be awkward and embarrassing.


I didn't see that thread, so maybe I misunderstood your OP.

I doubt I'd feel awkward at all, or even slightly embarassed. However, it depends on the person involved and the situation as to whether I'd find myself talkative or not. Certain people bring out the chattiness and with others I've a shy streak.


I didn't see that thread either. Why would an accidental meeting of someone from here in real life be awkward or embarrassing?

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Mon 03/30/09 06:37 PM
I love my fantasy world

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Mon 03/30/09 06:37 PM




I thought your favorite band was JOURNEY!!! rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl oops




Hmmm, locked in a room forced to listen to Journey non-stop for ten hours or get get married again......


Can I get married in shorts and t-shirt this time?


oops offtopic Can I get married in the nude?




Geez, this really is a fantasy world. love


I think it would be very unique right after the I-do start on the honeymoon bigsmile

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Mon 03/30/09 06:41 PM
Edited by Unknow on Mon 03/30/09 06:41 PM


I've been ruminating on this ever since I read a thread the other day where several people thought an accidental meeting of another member in the "real" world would be awkward and embarrassing.


I didn't see that thread, so maybe I misunderstood your OP.

I doubt I'd feel awkward at all, or even slightly embarassed. However, it depends on the person involved and the situation as to whether I'd find myself talkative or not. Certain people bring out the chattiness and with others I've a shy streak.


I didn't see that thread either. Why would an accidental meeting of someone from here in real life be awkward or embarrassing?




Because perhaps some people's fantasies here are preferrable to reality. The fantasy that they've cultivated would go *poof*. I can't think of another reason. Surely there is no longer a stigma attached to being on an internet site. Even if there were, why would seeing another member of the same site be embarrassing unless you wanted to hide from reality?

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Mon 03/30/09 06:45 PM


After being on this site for more than a year and having previously been on similar sites, I've come to believe that this is about 90% fantasy. Certainly the occasional reality slips through the cracks even if it is accidental.





bigsmile I exist only within the imagination of othersbigsmile
laugh

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Mon 03/30/09 06:46 PM



After being on this site for more than a year and having previously been on similar sites, I've come to believe that this is about 90% fantasy. Certainly the occasional reality slips through the cracks even if it is accidental.





bigsmile I exist only within the imagination of othersbigsmile
laugh



scared I've seen her ^^^^^^^ she's really a ghost... scared