I hear ya there!

Not necessarily. Sometimes it's easier to back off from a conversation if the other person is just going to make snide comments. Depends on who it is, really.

What about this thread, right now?

Does it feel like a place that could deteriorate into slanging matches?


Everyone in here, this thread is sharing their thoughts....and that's ALL! Nothing to debate, really...

It could still degenerate somehow. I hope not, though

It's fine so far!

I hear you...there are a few that go on forever, one in particular I go to often, it was created specifically as a place to just blow off steam, laugh, taunt each other, in a light hearted way, and is frequented by like minded people...

However, to give credit to at least some of those, many started out as games or whatever but people made real friendships there. They aren't the way they started, to be sure, but have continued because of the comraderie found. They are sort of like "home base" (sorry, got opening day on my mind this morning) for many people.

Truth be told (from my own perspective, anyway), I honestly believe this thread will die in the near future, simply because it's a thread that requires thought. It's not the normal, mundane type of thread that's prevalent. Generally speaking, if a thread requires even an iota of thought in order to post, the thread will drop like a stone. In fact, I would be willing to guess that most of the general membership won't even bother reading this thread past the first post or two, and out of those that do, most won't post.

I can see that... actually, that is probably what I am waffling on about...there is no drama required if the topic is something that invites people to share their thoughts, and are responded to with equal respect.

I personally see little gratification in one liners, unless used as bait , to draw other people out into conversation.

If you build it, they will come...

And threads go where they need to, even if it is the bone yard...

This is one place I would really like to hear what people enjoy, and why.

I hope most feel comfortable sharing that, as others have here.

Sadly it has become apparent that my days of word wizardry,wit & a bit of sarcastic humor tossed in are over with.I have picked up a warning & 4 comments plucked off the board in the past 6 days.;( This was not the case back in the days of JSH as U well know so Yeah! I'm having to make a transition myself.So it appears the options are quite simple & apparent.1)Endure the daily doses of cynicism,redundancy,argumentativeness & mindless banter.2)Or move on.I truly enjoy a variety of topics but certainly could do without thee above mentioned items.For the sake of my friends & writing I shall stay pat for now.I'll gladly embrace some positive changes.
Godspeed!Cy

Hi Roy!!!!

Help me out here, I am lost, what do you mean? (Dumbarse aussie here, please translate)

If you ever have the urge for wizardry wit, or sarcasm... email me... hahahaha I could do with the intelligent variety..

There are enough people that have posted already that have shared their preferences... to create threads that would be utilised...perhaps it is possible to recreate the camaraderie once experienced in earlier times.

It's 11 pm here and my day started at 4.00 am...

please help my little survey out and answer ....

I'll be back....

(said in ominous sounding voice)

There ARE those of us who would truly appreciate something more cerebral than "Would you throw rancid cat litter at the person above you?"

The problem being, of course, that the "intellectual" threads tend to disappear rapidly, while "cat litter" may run for months and make it to Part 36 or something.

So, from a sheer numbers/longevity standpoint, "intellectual" threads would have to be produced at a much higher rate per day, simply to remain in first-forum-page contention with the drivel.

Already beat you to the punch, my friend.

I'd have to state categorically, without dispute & beyond all recognition. 'Maybe?'



Don't Panic!

For once, we agree.

With that, I'm turning this off and going out to catch the sun.

Have a nice day, all.

intelectual conversation is important, as is some lite humor, and questions of getting to know you.

I'm always looking for interesting convos and stimulating ones as well...I also find that my lingo doesn't really help as some don't understand the kiwi/aussie language and words at times, which we use in everyday ordinary talking...What may be an insult or come across as a 'swear' word to some, is actually just normal convos to kiwi/aussies...

I am already in enough 'fluffy bunny' Forums that drive me bloody insane, or Forums that have your 'drama queens/wankers'...

I pretty much like the Science Forum and Politics one here, always alot of interesting stuff in there, until you get the bleating one minded twackers spoiling such threads...But hey, Im also a smart arse at times...Anyway, good post Jess...Have a great arvo..lol...