I used to do a lot of searching for that right woman, when I realized that you can't always make something happen, it has to happen on it's own. One thing I learned about that search is that it takes a lot of patience, time, trial and error. At least with every relationship you go through you can qualify it as a learning experience…as long as you pay attention or think about it for a little bit. On the way there you in the end grow, mature, and learn what to do and not to do even though everyone is different it helps to amount to the final situation every time. Eventually you will learn how to love and have that successful, lasting relationship and all the pain and time turns out to be worth it. Although you may go through life searching for someone…don't worry someone is also searching for you time just has not yet brought you together to fulfill destiny and fate. In the travels through relationships and growth we still find that we learn more about ourselves as well… about our lives, backgrounds, likes, dislikes, who we are, what we want, where we come from, where we want to go, what we hope to achieve, and who we want to be. Who do you want to be as a person? The kind of things I have tended to find a lot of are women who like to use men as thrill rides. I also constantly hear from females about how guys have done just as bad to them. Roller coaster type if you will. The ones that get into the relationship and it's nothing but stress all the time.I find a lot that the last relationship someone was involved in greatly affects the next one. Some people tend to only see the last person they were with in the next person and can't see the next person for who they really are. Overlooking everything about them and inaccurately being able to decipher who that person truly is. Instead these relationships often fail or just fall apart. And we have no one to blame but ourselves in the end. How many people have been in relationships where that person just doesn't seem to care about what that person does or has to say or wants to do? Selfish counterparts in an aggressively evolving world. There are a lot of people out there that want to date for the physical aspects in life and don't seem to give one thought to what someone else really wants. To continue, they also overlook a person's emotions. It seems that there are a lot of women out there who don't think that men should be emotional. Okay it works both ways once again, but given that a guy is writing this, yeah it's going to seem biased towards women…trust me ladies I'm on your side as well as my own here and anything I say can go towards either sex. I'm saying if I tell a woman I love her…I mean that. It's not something I like to throw around at all. And if someone tells me that I'd hope it would be for the same reasons. But also the things I do I try to reflect what someone's interests are and I try to let them see that I pay attention and have been acknowledging what they want to do or want out of life.

geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez Im not here to read an essay!!!!


Take 2 aspirins and call me in the morning!!

AWWW that better? CAN I get you anything else? pacifier? coffee? anyting? you sure? okay we're good then nighty night

I want my sucky!!!


Noooooooooooo I give you an A+ for the write.......

lol thanks, and I'll see what I can do for you about that sucky lol

Honestky, Amigo, the gypsy is right:
it takes you too many words to come to the point, which id jusr 2-3 sntenced lomg.
Itbe very hekpful if yot woild confine yourself (on ,oyt then 10 sebtences!

Jean Luc Picard says, "Make it so."

not being bias here, but i totally agree with you...

it just happens when it happens. say "yes" a lot! and don't be too afraid of the rollercoasters! you might miss the ride of a lifetime!

Star Trek roflmao be seeing you