after being with someone for 6 months i found out when he left me the whole time he was married and had a son and was living with me and his wife at the same time!!!! im losing my mind here someone help me out of this box!!!

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Just put the whole thing behind you. Worrying about isn't gonna help your situation out, as all it'll do is take away years from YOUR life. I just hope protection was used, so that there aren't any unwanted children to come out of the situation.

If the dirtbag was caught red-handed, then he'll have to deal with the circumstances.

I think Ive been here before~~~

no thank goodness no children by him but it still stings how can sum1 live a doublew life like that... sure on maury but in houston!!!!lol

Sometimes sharing how you feel with an objective person can help ease the stuff that goes round and round your head.

A good counsellor can be really helpful.

perhaps take time to learn about yourself a little more...find out what you like and dislike, what you have always wanted to do...go do...and remember why you are a valuable person, with or without a partner.

hes not worth it... my ex hubby cheated on me before during and after we got married and i knew it and i put up with it. while we were separated the 4th and last time he got together with someone and they had a child together. he cheated on her with his 2nd wife. and he told her that we were already divorced which we wernt. and im pretty sure he cheated on his 2nd wife as i know him way to well.. he told her that he threw me down the stairs. .THAT WAS A BIG LIE !! wasent even true. and he told her i burned his clothese. that wasent even true....

well didnt you get the idea that he wasent being honest when he wouldnt invite you over to his house (in the beganing) as im sure he was a sweet talker

save all the cat turds from everybody's catbox in the neighborhood, and fill up the entire car this summer in the middle of 90 degree heat while he's at work......throw in some dead seafood, for some sushi sh!trolls

i went to his house well his apartment should i say it was his... no sign of a woman im talking about a complete double life!!! i would not have been with him if i thought he was with sum1 else....

Dial "M" for MURDER!!!

WOW!!! That's objective!!!

he sounds more like a scum bag than my ex hubby... forget about him, he used you.. go forward in your life, even seek counseling if you feel you need it. that guy was useless

I'm wondering...is it possible this guy was separated from his wife and child, had his own apartment...was living alone...and somewhere during his relationship with you, he reconciled with his wife, and was too chicken to fess up?

Is that at all possible?

Do what I did......send his wife all the cards he sent you.......then invite him over wearing your sluttiest sexiest lingerie and strut around....

and say........"Im sorry....but youre married and cant have this"

well counceling no, dialing "m"...ok no i cant do that... but i do still constantly finding myself thinking about him and hating him but at the same time i keep remembering the fun times and the laughs and the warm embraces it almost seems like its not real.... well it wasnt real i know that but i miss the man i thought he was if that makes sense at all.....in all honesty if he was really the man i thought he was he would have been perfect we never even argued not one time!!!!!

oh and make him buy you the most expensive champagne first......

well jesse i have considered that many times but from what i gather from his wife vivian that he was with her on the nights he told me he hadto work nights and with me on the days he told her he had conferences.... lol she told me that he was home with her 3 to 4 days out of the week!!!! he pretty much balanced us both out to where we were both happy and unaware!!!! she didnt even know he had another apartment or bank acct!!!

Gypsy, I wanna see you teetering on 6 inch spike heels with fishnets and a corset, waving Moet champagne, and shakin your booty, singing, " You can't touch this!"

pay thirty people to throw hundreds of little pickles at him.

Geeez!!!!!!!!!He's good, or, well you two gals were.....(I am loathe to say this) not so bright.