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No because anything that has ever happened to me good or bad has been by my consent. If you choose to let yourself enter an unhealthy emotionally abusive relationship then thats on you. To true... |
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Physically and emotionally...the physical aspects are relatively easy to heal from... the emotional are by far more damaging.
As to her 'you earnt it' crap... I sincerely hope you are never awoken by a stranger in your house.... then we'll talk about how you earnt it, shall we? |
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Physically and emotionally...the physical aspects are relatively easy to heal from... the emotional are by far more damaging. As to her 'you earnt it' crap... I sincerely hope you are never awoken by a stranger in your house.... then we'll talk about how you earnt it, shall we?  Exactly, sistah ...  
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Physically and emotionally...the physical aspects are relatively easy to heal from... the emotional are by far more damaging. As to her 'you earnt it' crap... I sincerely hope you are never awoken by a stranger in your house.... then we'll talk about how you earnt it, shall we? Exactly, sistah ...
Wow, I feel for you. I had nightmare about being raped once, and even though it was just a dream it really messed me up. I don't know how I'd handle the real thing. |
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It is certainly NOT something of one's choosing, as one of the posters presumes.
To be in a position of complete vulnerability, and to have all personal power and control removed, AGAINST your will, is very uncomfortable. Add three sleeping small children in the house....almost terrifying! The psychological trauma far exceeds the physical trauma. It is as much emotional as it is physical. |
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Getting beat up on the play ground everyday for 3 years considered mentally raped? Because i think so
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Yes...and I must say I do like your choice of recycled attire Allen.
 
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lol raped emotionally oh yes... how about me and my ex were together for 6 months and we stayed together almost constantly and one day out the blue he dissappears and finally i talk to him after many attepmts to get him to answer his phone only to find out he is married and has a son ... and him and his wife were still together!!!! all my time and feelings and energy right out the window!!!! now thats raped!!!
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Have you ever been Raped.... emotionally? I don't understand the question. (But I think My X-husband called in mind fcking.)
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I'm with everyone who says mind f*ck..... any one of us who has been married has probably been mind f*cked by our exes
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It is certainly NOT something of one's choosing, as one of the posters presumes. To be in a position of complete vulnerability, and to have all personal power and control removed, AGAINST your will, is very uncomfortable. Add three sleeping small children in the house....almost terrifying! The psychological trauma far exceeds the physical trauma. It is as much emotional as it is physical. Please do try to consider that I was only responding to the OP's inquiry about being "emotionally raped" not physically. IN MY OPINION, you have to let someone in emotionally to let them do something like that to you. As I am not a particularly emotional person it's easy to separate my emotions enough not to let someone do that to me. A physical rape is a horse of a completely different color and something that one would have no control over. I do not believe the OP was asking about the emotional aspect of a physical rape. Please try not to be so presumptuous of peoples responses when the question itself had no clear definition of what being "emotionally raped" means. |
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Thanks Mum, I shall write that out 100 times...
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Edited by
msmyka
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Thu 03/26/09 10:23 PM
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Edited because the post I was responding to was removed.
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Please discuss the topic without the personal insults. Posts removed Thank you, Mark |
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For years - I walked away while I still could - if I would have stayed, it would have eventually killed me.
 
OP - the road to healing is painful and a little slow at first. Admitting it and acknowledging the source are the first steps to recovering from such negativity. Wishing you the best. Here is to new beginnings and second chances!
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