I gotta question, I cannot help my buddy out on this one but maybe the ladies have a understanding....my friend and I are both in our 30's....

I have a buddy who practically lives at my house, eats, drinks, showers, sleeps.....hes always here...which is cool, because he is my best friend...which also means, his gf is over here also. which is OK with me also because i am her friend also.

but!....last week, me and my buddy hit the down arrow for Internet Explorer and the history came up kekekeke....u already know where this is going....so this internet dating service comes up. I wont say the name of the site but my buddy and I never heard of that site. so we page thru each history line....and sure enough, we hit the registration page and her personal info was all typed in with a credit card gift card used as her payment...numbers didnt show up, darn it!! JK....we even found her user name...

anyways...my friend is really in the dark about all this. so last night, he checked the history again...and sure enough, she was on and her profile has been edited to 'seeking a honest man and doesnt want to play games'...something of that nature...he is really bothered by the seeking part of this...he is a good man, funny guy too...

I told him, "man dude shes still looking bro and I think your only temporary for her"....am i wrong?

so, should he be afraid? what can he do? what can i tell him?

Tell him to ditch the girl. She's still looking and apparently not satisfied with what she's already got.

Sure sounds like he's a temporary thing for her. If he weren't she wouldn't be looking...


Too bad for your friend... And if I were him, I'd get rid of her now.

She's been had. She just doesn't know it yet. She thinks she's pulling a fast one.

I'd tell him to give her the gate.

make a fake profile on the sites and hit her up and then see what she does

seems to me that few are content with what they have anymore.
i would say that 90% of people are looking for something better even when they have someone.
just the way i observe it.



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I had a similiar situation except it was my BF at the time and he forgot to sign out of his yahoo im or erase the conversation history. He was talkin all kinds of crap to some woman. Purty much they were have cybersex. He swore it was nuthin, it was just innocent fun. Needless to say I'm single now Tell him to let the door knob hit her where the Good Lord split her unless he wants nuthin but heartache

I believe you're right, Drew. Everybody says they "won't settle for less than the best," when in reality, they DO....at least until something that strikes their interest even more comes along. It's really not about who is right, it's more often than not about who is right NOW.

I did that with my BF (see above postin) he was so busted! He had the nerve to get pissed at me for the false profile!! He thought for sure he was gonna have himself a Sugar Mama!!!

Yeah, I like this...catch her red-handed so there's no way she can deny it and it gives her a little taste of what's like to be played.

Your friend has his evidence on that computer. Sounds like she is still looking.

Not good.

i don't know about the OP's buddy, but i wouldn't want to be with any girl who just found me to be a step on the way to something better.

if you're constantly looking at the grass on the other side of the fence to see if it's greener, you're neglecting what you have right in front of you. a relationship doesn't continue to grow without cultivation and work.


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Yeah, but most people aren't in it for the long haul anymore, not the same way our parents or grandparents did it. These days, it's much easier to just throw in the towel.

too many people want something for nothing


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Thanks everyone for your opinions...I agree, he has to let the girl go....man, how can you even trust her anymore!?

last night my buddy confronted her...she says its a joke and her girlfriend forced her to do it.....shes an idiot...what are we? 5 yrs old?....

my buddy dumped her last night!....this morning...she calls ME!....trying to defend herself...i told her, 'ummm hey, why are you calling me?' hehehe

I totally agree with you guys. Sux to be this guy though. Wow.

Ya your buddy (and you) are right not to believe her. She was caught with her hand in the cookie jar .. no way to rationalize THAT away without admitting you wanted just that .. a cookie. LOL

Sorry for your friend

sounds just like 50% of the women here.....

by the way this should be in the relationship forum?