Hi, boys and girls. This is a Chinese guy just arrived CA one month before.

I am curious about how you view of those Asian guys in your life. Can they get into your life circle becoming close friends? You know, eastern culture is quite different with those of west. For example, Chinese boys will be in great courage to say love to his favorite girl. It is usually rude and hardly unbelievable in our etiquette to a Chinese girl when a boy confessed love to her at first date.

Also, it is unacceptable for a Chinese guy to go Dutch while dating with a girl for it will be thought that boy is mean. But it might be usual at all.

No matter how, culture gap is funny. God creates diversed of cultures located every corner of the world to confuse us. So why not share your opinions with us to make it clear now? your advices might be constructive to those struggling in trouble.

Thanks for your time here.

well i dotn know what chinese guys you talking about but happend too be my ex from 3 years ago is chinese so yeah we were super close.. we dated hahaa

I guess you should to get his inner mind and you can catch culture gap then, which might be good suggest to you if you are interested to date with one more Chinese guy. Also I think those American borned Chinese guy really did well.

But dear poohbearface, could you give me some good advice how can foreign Chinese guys get more native friends here?