Topic: What's the WORST thing a friend has done....
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Fri 03/20/09 04:23 PM
What's the WORST thing a friend has done....too you?
Did you remain friends?

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Fri 03/20/09 05:09 PM
Edited by Blaze1978 on Fri 03/20/09 05:13 PM
14 years ago, my second best friend publicly humiliated me because he had a hard-on for a dame.

Perhaps they were relatives, since I have it on good authority that he seriously dated his cousin (back when we were still friends). Yeah, thought I was keeping that one in the vault, didn't you, Adam?pitchfork

He wasn't interested in being friends anymore, and therefore can go to hell.

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Fri 03/20/09 05:14 PM
She lied to me.

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Fri 03/20/09 05:17 PM
Edited by Mr_Music on Fri 03/20/09 05:18 PM
When I was still very "green" in the area of computers, I would occasionally contact a guy who I had been best friends with since 6th grade who had always been a computer genius, just so I could learn and get a better feel of how these things worked. One time when I contacted him, he completely lost his friggin' mind and totally tore me a new one, accusing me of the only reason I ever contacted him anymore was to talk computers and get information from him (like it was some big government secret or something). I just let him rant. After he was done, I told him that I was only trying to learn, and if that was how he really felt, I'd figure it out myself. I've done that ever since, with minimal help from anyone. I told him to go f*ck himself, and I haven't spoken to him since. Kinda sad, since we were once as close as brothers, but I've never lost any sleep over him.

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Fri 03/20/09 05:19 PM
I was taking care of my Mom who had terminal cancer & my best friend finally showed her true nature & colors...perhaps that was the BEST thing she did to me! :wink:

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Fri 03/20/09 05:23 PM
Edited by njmom05 on Fri 03/20/09 05:28 PM
My best friend since kindergarten was supposed to be my maid of honor in my wedding. I got all of the dresses at the JC Penney Outlet store, including mine. Everything was so cheap, but she decided 2 weeks before the wedding that she just couldn't afford the $40 for the dress and backed out. I told her I'd pay for it but she said nah that she felt bad. I was sooo pissed at her! Thank heaven my cousin was her exact size, so my sister stepped up as maitron of honor and my cousin was a bridesmaid.

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Fri 03/20/09 05:26 PM

What's the WORST thing a friend has done....too you?
Did you remain friends?


Well I think this would rate as the worst in normal situations. She carried on a 9 month affair with my EX,what I guess she didn't realize is that was adultery was the only reason for divorce in my family so she could have saved me a lot of angst if she would have told me and alot of money...So something that should have been horrible was actually the key to my prison cell.

Did we stay friends NOPE.. Once the trust was broken I had no desire to mend it.

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Fri 03/20/09 05:34 PM
She broke my trust, and in the process my heart. We were best friends for many years.

Not anymore. ohwell

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Fri 03/20/09 05:37 PM

What's the WORST thing a friend has done....too you?
Did you remain friends?


My best friends, were my x-husbands.....
I don't need to explain, you know the drill..
And, No glasses

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Sun 03/22/09 06:59 AM
Uh proposed to my ex wife the day she left? I think that may qualify.

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Sun 03/22/09 07:03 AM
Well she is my sister and was my friend... She is with my now exhusband go figure huh...spock

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Sun 03/22/09 07:10 AM
It was a week after I left my husband. I was probably my most vulnerable. Needing the support of a friend, as I was going through the legal proceedings from the abuse. But instead of her being there for me, she decided it was a good idea to sleep with him. She was with him a year before he did the same thing to her that he did to me. We no longer talk, and as heartless as this may sound, I did not feel sorry for the her after the assault.

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Sun 03/22/09 07:55 AM
boinked my wife....no we are not still friends. evidently he NEVER was a friend...

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Sun 03/22/09 07:59 AM

It was a week after I left my husband. I was probably my most vulnerable. Needing the support of a friend, as I was going through the legal proceedings from the abuse. But instead of her being there for me, she decided it was a good idea to sleep with him. She was with him a year before he did the same thing to her that he did to me. We no longer talk, and as heartless as this may sound, I did not feel sorry for the her after the assault.



Kharma, Baby...what goes around, comes around & usually in their own dish...

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Sun 03/22/09 12:57 PM
I was in an abusive relationship at the time.My best friend of 12 years turned around an told my ex that I was going to a shelter, which could of took a bad situation and turned it into a dangerous one
We are civil to eachother but that's it.No trust here for her.