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Topic: Can you make yourself love someone?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 03/19/09 01:30 PM
Can you make yourself think that you love someone when really you don't?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Thu 03/19/09 01:32 PM
Lust perhaps, but not love

LightVoice Joined Thu 08/09/07 Posts: 7405	Thu 03/19/09 01:32 PM
nope

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 03/19/09 01:35 PM
Lust perhaps, but not love

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 03/19/09 01:35 PM
nope why not?

Emily1117 Joined Thu 03/12/09 Posts: 54	Thu 03/19/09 01:35 PM
Nope... But try to look at his/her nice personality only. Maybe that will help.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 03/19/09 01:43 PM
Nope... But try to look at his/her nice personality only. Maybe that will help. excellent point

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 03/19/09 01:52 PM


Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 03/19/09 01:59 PM
Can you make yourself think that you love someone when really you don't? I can't. But..maybe somebody can when they are in love with being in love. Maybe?

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Thu 03/19/09 02:20 PM
Can you make yourself think that you love someone when really you don't? No, you either love someone or you don't. It's not something that can be forced. Research also indicates that romantic love isn't just an emotion but a system, to fake it you'd have to be faking a few things!

evilbabe277 Joined Thu 02/19/09 Posts: 2751	Thu 03/19/09 02:33 PM
Can you make yourself think that you love someone when really you don't? No, you either love someone or you don't. It's not something that can be forced. Research also indicates that romantic love isn't just an emotion but a system, to fake it you'd have to be faking a few things! I agree

Crys26 Joined Fri 01/23/09 Posts: 541	Thu 03/19/09 08:12 PM
Nope.. You can try.. you can fool yourself, maybe, for a little bit. But its just not possible. I know, I tried.

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Thu 03/19/09 08:13 PM
no

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 03/19/09 08:15 PM
I can't make myself do anything. I don't even listen to me anymore.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Thu 03/19/09 08:16 PM
Absolutely! Just drop some Zanex with a couple of vodka mixed drinks...you will love whatever woman is in reach...(I learned this from an ex...and it is absolutely true)

zanne46 Joined Sun 07/01/07 Posts: 5610	Thu 03/19/09 08:41 PM
NO........and don't want to.....

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76471	Thu 03/19/09 10:31 PM
Nope either it is there or it's not.

scoundrel Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 5960	Thu 03/19/09 11:47 PM Edited by scoundrel on Thu 03/19/09 11:49 PM
Can you make yourself think that you love someone when really you don't? I think that if I am devoted to really knowing a person deeply, and understanding how/why they tick, then I will love them (as a brother or sister or other) but I will not be in love...

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 03/19/09 11:55 PM
Can you make yourself think that you love someone when really you don't? Nope.......Ive tried to be in love with someone who I obviously wasnt only because he was this great guy and my parents liked him so much. He still is a great guy but I am just not attracted to him that way. It was a shame too because he would have done anything for me......

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Thu 03/19/09 11:57 PM
Can you make yourself think that you love someone when really you don't? Nope. When the fiiiyyaaaahh! isn't there, it just isn't there, and there ain't any use in trying to force it out. In the end, you're just deluding yourself.