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Topic: Are you afraid....
Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 03/19/09 10:55 AM


oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Thu 03/19/09 11:01 AM
NEVER pounce, that would be rude. Gentle suggestive actions, allowing the lady to chose & accept or reject, the ideas. Ladies have the right to say "NO", but when ASKED right, usually say "YES."

DragonFlyTat Joined Fri 08/29/08 Posts: 3759	Thu 03/19/09 11:01 AM
I am more of a go getter. I see what I want and I go after it.

jester4666 Joined Wed 03/04/09 Posts: 125	Thu 03/19/09 11:08 AM
i've done both, but i think i prefer her to make the first move just so i don't read something into it that isn't there.

MmmmHmmm Joined Thu 03/05/09 Posts: 981	Thu 03/19/09 12:04 PM
i dont mind making the first move as far as talking to someone. but i am not the "throw myself all over you" type of girl. if i am interested he will know. if he doesnt reciprocate, then i know where he stands.

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Thu 03/19/09 12:09 PM
Fear of rejection means your self worth is based on some strangers willingness to talk to you? I go in with the mind set of just meeting people and if they are interesting and interested then make a move

TwoTallOne Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 16854	Thu 03/19/09 12:14 PM
have done both , pounced and been pounced ... either way works IF you both want it too

lovethelord Joined Sun 01/11/09 Posts: 1399	Thu 03/19/09 03:08 PM
have done both , pounced and been pounced ... either way works IF you both want it too true..

74Drew Joined Thu 01/22/09 Posts: 4901	Thu 03/19/09 03:35 PM
to make the first move ????????? or do you pounce like a mouse on cheese? i don't approach. at all. ever. that could be why i'm still single. . . .

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Thu 03/19/09 03:50 PM
I'm fairly new at this but so far I haven't made the first move. If all guys feel like Drew, I'm never going to get a date.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Thu 03/19/09 04:00 PM
to make the first move ????????? or do you pounce like a mouse on cheese? i don't approach. at all. ever. that could be why i'm still single. . . .

KimmiM Joined Sat 12/27/08 Posts: 1694	Thu 03/19/09 04:04 PM
Depending on the situation I'll sometimes make the first move... but I don't pounce. I prefer being pounced upon.

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Thu 03/19/09 04:04 PM
to make the first move ????????? or do you pounce like a mouse on cheese? In the past i'd have let the other person make the first move, usually. But the more weight i lose the more my confidence sky rockets. I'm walking taller, totally more confident, so the next time someone catches my attention i'll pounce!

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Thu 03/19/09 04:05 PM
yes , as i bat my puppy eyes.!!!

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21482	Thu 03/19/09 04:08 PM
to make the first move ????????? or do you pounce like a mouse on cheese? I'm a carnivore. I leave the cheese for the mice.

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Thu 03/19/09 04:08 PM
to make the first move ????????? or do you pounce like a mouse on cheese? In the past i'd have let the other person make the first move, usually. But the more weight i lose the more my confidence sky rockets. I'm walking taller, totally more confident, so the next time someone catches my attention i'll pounce! Speaking of weight loss, I can even see it in your face. You look terrific Andy!

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Thu 03/19/09 04:12 PM
to make the first move ????????? or do you pounce like a mouse on cheese? In the past i'd have let the other person make the first move, usually. But the more weight i lose the more my confidence sky rockets. I'm walking taller, totally more confident, so the next time someone catches my attention i'll pounce! Speaking of weight loss, I can even see it in your face. You look terrific Andy! Thanks! It's going well, every week i'm getting great results, happy days!

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Thu 03/19/09 04:19 PM
I suck at making the first move. I even tried it today with this girlbin my ec class but I bailed cuz she's sooooooooooooo hawt. Damn!

lovethelord Joined Sun 01/11/09 Posts: 1399	Thu 03/19/09 05:27 PM
to make the first move ????????? or do you pounce like a mouse on cheese? i don't approach. at all. ever. that could be why i'm still single. . . . ding ding ding!!! That is why your single! Lots of girls like to wait for the guy to ask(not all but alot) so go for it!!!!!!! p.s. you are funny, smart and handsome!! Just do it!

awolf1010 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 7251	Thu 03/19/09 05:29 PM
Im already done!!!!!!!!!!!