the dating scence has changed what happened to a guy opening a car door for you pushing in the chair for you holding hands getting to know eachother ,really falling in love then getting married now the dates just want sex with no strings attach ,with no love involved its ruining it for the ones that want a reationship cause its all about sex and games now ,

Its not ALL like that. Some of us do want a longer term commitment. Noone I know woud turn down an attractive offer of a short term relationship (given the freedom to do so) though.

Do you want us to rate your profile?

what happened????

Nothing....

Chivalry is not dead, here!

if you really want to know what happened i will tell you. this is not to be mean or even my beliefs but once the women lib started and pushed forward the men started saying why am i doing all the for a woman she is equal to me in every way but has never pulled out my chair or even offered to pay for dinner. i have gone out with several women and opened the door, pulled out her chair and even pushed it back in once she sat down. payed for the meal had a wonderful conversation and took her home exspecting that we would do it again really soon. the next night i see her out with another guy that i knew so i talked to him and he said that he found out all she was doing was getting free nights out on the town. so ladies thank her for you not getting the special treatment anymore. guys are tired of player just as much as women are. i am sorry if i offened anyone with this but i just had to let you know.

I'm so guilty!! I don't always open the door for a man, I'm usually the one to pull their chair out from under them to make then land on their butts, and I'm known to just take advantage of their bodies and pitch them to the curb before dawn. Somehow, they just don't seem to mind!!!

Boy, you sure are meeting the wrong ones!!

damned if i can find the right ones. i have been looking but i guess i am using the wrong bait.

I've encountered some of those types of women, and shame on them. But, if a man asks me out, he'd better figure it out REALLLLLLY FAST that he's with a lady, or there SURELY wouldn't be a second date. And women's lib has nothing to do with it except for what men want to inflect into it. And you are only going on hearsay with your experience. If you were THAT SPECIAL, she likely wouldn't have moved on to the next. One date doesn't equal a commitment.

sxpk your on the money! "Gimmy what I want then get lost" The games never end. What ever happened to compassion and mutual respect?Just remember that the door swings both ways and that what comes around goes around. Dont place expectations on anything because when you do, you set yourself up for failure.If you feel like you've been stung , then become stronger and be aware of the warning signs to help keep it from a repeated cycle.dont change yourself to please the other persons EGO.

Ifind it has not changed for me. Doors are opend and respect is given when you give respect you gte it back

I agree, you should just give up, date women!!

This is my first time ever to reply to a forum. And I have to say My Dear Lady you are so Right....you are so RIGHT...how can we good ladies bring this issue more into the open..it should just go right back to the respect of a Lady. People today calls us Chick..well to me that belongs in a barn. Boy do I support you comment..way to go Mamme.

pick em up put in em in a bag shake em all around,

dump em all, still all the same,

You get what you give. although I must say, I was around 27 years old when I first got some Roses from a girlfriend. Boy was I surprised, no actually shocked

Hasn't happened ever agian. Now 45

I think it goes both ways is why things are the way they are. From a mans point and vew. To many woman want to be spoild. They want men to do everything for them , but don't want to give anything back. example, take a women that has not been tanted from living in the US that has family value and bring here here. He whole personality will chang. We live in a materiellistic world,how ever you spell it, and that plays with mostley with the younger generation. So, alot of men are not looking for someone to be with if you have to pay for everything just to get what should be freely given when it come to loving somone.

Its all about sex for me

I don't believe it has changed. As many have already said, you get what you give.

If you date the 'playa' types then you won't experience a respectful night.

Don't date guys that only want NSA sex.

Raise your bar a little higher, and the types of guys you will attracted will be in harmony with what you are seeking.

I got ya beat. The first time I ever got flowers from a woman was last year Valentine's Day, at the age of 40. Actually, it wasn't just one woman, it was a group of female friends who decided it was time I got my first ever bouquet of a dozen roses, AND my first-ever heart-shaped box of chocolates.

Apparently, most women only think of receiving these types of things, instead of giving them....

Women's lib changerd everything. Women wanted to be equeal, so I treat them as equeals. My date isn't lame. She can open her own car door and push her own chair in.

Holding hands is another matter. I start working my way up to that after a few mins. First, I want to get her used to my touch. I don't just suddenly grab her hand.

Marrage is for when you want to have children. I'm done with that part of my life. I can't see any reason to get married again.

I think what you are looking for is someone to fulfill your fantasies. Let me save you some time. No one can live up to the fantacy you've built up in your mind. Romance fades as soon as you learn your lover has faults and isn't perfect.

However, the sex can still be great. What if you lived your own life to fulfill your own dreams and simply enjoyed the men in your life how ever you please? See them once or see them 10,000 times. Enjoy whatever time you spend with them and enjoy being home alone too. It's a good life! Live it while you still can.

alrighty and your going to do "what" about it.