so whats up with ike 90% of lesbians being even more complicated than straight chicks? to be honest lately i rather flirt with str8 chicks because they open up easily most of the time.

i was supposed to move in with a shorty who as far as i was aware of was a lesbian, she dated guys in her teens bcuz she told me she didnt knw what she was at the time.

now shes dating a dude n i tld her she didnt have 2 lie she said she wasnt that she was lesbian for 2 whole years.

n im like wtf?! why wasnt i aware of this.

ladies you cannot b a lesbian bcuz u havent dated guys in 2 years.

stop switching labels.

stop with the mind games and lies...seriously peoples emotions are not toys.

i feel bad for this shorty cuz she 18 n her dude is 30 with 3 baby mommas n 3 kids..like wow wtf.

I've noticed that too. I used to have lesbian friends at my last job but they chased me out of their apartment complex once....i never dared go back lol

lol why did they chase you?

ugh women.

I'm so done with them for a while.

You sound like you are not real impressed with females in general at the moment... and fair enough, with your ex and you parting ways...

Sexuality labels.... just like everything else in the world, is open to interpretation.

The person you were about to share house with, is perhaps less comfortable with the label 'bi-sexual', and more comfortable with lesbian.

And besides you are sharing a house, not a bed, so who gives a rats what she identifies with sexually?

Lesbian, bi, straight, bi-curious, and gay are not elitist titles, that YOU get to decide...people identify with what THEY identify with.

Yeah what she said.
Keep an open mind because the person you are judging just might have an open mind about you !!!

actually the girl i dated for 6 years is bi. i dont care if theyr bi or lesbian. just dont lie.

and the girl i was moving in with, we were going to be together share the bed, expenses and all that.

thats why i was bothered.then she has the audacity to tell me that once i move in shell dump him.

thats just beyond retarded.

i get labels, but not lies.

I said some off hand remark about something (it was years ago I don't remember) but 5 lesbians chased me out of the building and i ran to my car and got the hell out of there. O_O

Well not sure what to say about that really. I guess to mess with peoples feeling is wrong. But women by Science, studies, and polls are or will have a same sex experience. Either by the means of kissing, sex, or even dating.

I myself am not a women. I have seen on a lot of dating sites women place there prefer sex as Bi. Maybe this women your dealing might be bi and may not understand the difference between gay or straight.

Sounds pretty confusing I am sure. In time all things show there true nature.

lmao im sorry u had 2 deal with that

Hangon......it was only 24 hours ago you were devastated, grief stricken...and NEVER going to be over her... and now this new chicka is already dust....IN 24 HOURS?????

oh i know about the whole experimenting thing.

but to be honest this girl will date anyone who will give her attention. she told me she knows im good for her and what she needs...what she needs not what she wants...


i try to give her advice, but shell learn when shes ready.

lol nooo not like that. this girl n i planned this in dec. i was just saving up..

n like usual i was thinking today about everything..

n i just posted it.

im heartbroken, but i do a lot of thinking and writing.

but this incident happened a few months ago..i was just thinkin about it 2day for sum reason.

Eat them.