Topic: Really sucks....
beautyfrompain's photo
Mon 03/16/09 07:31 PM

So the marriage is off???


Go figure...

My boys loved him. I hope the same happens to him and that he feels the pain ten times worse.

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Mon 03/16/09 07:32 PM


So the marriage is off???


Go figure...

My boys loved him. I hope the same happens to him and that he feels the pain ten times worse.


Deep down, you know you don't want that. It will pass in time, hon. Trust me.

beautyfrompain's photo
Mon 03/16/09 07:32 PM


I feel numb...

Wait until you don't feel anything at allohwell ...Like me
I'm there. I will NEVER trust another man...especially a so-called Christian man.

darkowl1's photo
Mon 03/16/09 07:34 PM
yes, many times, and it doesn't get easier, but i do get more numb, and can see it coming from a long way away now, so it's not painful like it was, but............numb, i work through it and talk to my friends, and focus on the people who need me which are many, including my recent ex and her fiance, that ended up homeless, and i took them in....very interesting set of feelings there. he felt very theatened, and caused a lot of friction, but i sat him down many times and talked to him and reassured him.
beauty, i wish i could take the pain away my friend, but i can give you a huge(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( huuggg!!)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) and i'm sorry flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou :heart: brokenheart

writer_gurl's photo
Mon 03/16/09 07:35 PM



I feel numb...

Wait until you don't feel anything at allohwell ...Like me
I'm there. I will NEVER trust another man...especially a so-called Christian man.

Yeah, I hate fakers....I want a Christian man but if he isn't then just say sonoway

beautyfrompain's photo
Mon 03/16/09 07:38 PM

yes, many times, and it doesn't get easier, but i do get more numb, and can see it coming from a long way away now, so it's not painful like it was, but............numb, i work through it and talk to my friends, and focus on the people who need me which are many, including my recent ex and her fiance, that ended up homeless, and i took them in....very interesting set of feelings there. he felt very theatened, and caused a lot of friction, but i sat him down many times and talked to him and reassured him.
beauty, i wish i could take the pain away my friend, but i can give you a huge(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( huuggg!!)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) and i'm sorry flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou :heart: brokenheart
thanks.......I feel like going over there and slashing his tires. Very Christian feelings I am having. LET ME CONFESS here why I am at it. I went and got me a bottle of crown royal and coke and YEAH I'm drunk........but the pain is still here. SEE I'm not perfect and I don't feel like a Christian right now. I'm a mess!!!

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Mon 03/16/09 07:39 PM
Edited by OrangeCat on Mon 03/16/09 07:53 PM

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Mon 03/16/09 07:40 PM


yes, many times, and it doesn't get easier, but i do get more numb, and can see it coming from a long way away now, so it's not painful like it was, but............numb, i work through it and talk to my friends, and focus on the people who need me which are many, including my recent ex and her fiance, that ended up homeless, and i took them in....very interesting set of feelings there. he felt very theatened, and caused a lot of friction, but i sat him down many times and talked to him and reassured him.
beauty, i wish i could take the pain away my friend, but i can give you a huge(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( huuggg!!)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) and i'm sorry flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou :heart: brokenheart
thanks.......I feel like going over there and slashing his tires. Very Christian feelings I am having. LET ME CONFESS here why I am at it. I went and got me a bottle of crown royal and coke and YEAH I'm drunk........but the pain is still here. SEE I'm not perfect and I don't feel like a Christian right now. I'm a mess!!!
Try to sleep on it....He wasnnnnnnt worth it if ya got feelings like slashing tires...Hes a bumb let it beflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

beautyfrompain's photo
Mon 03/16/09 07:40 PM




I feel numb...

Wait until you don't feel anything at allohwell ...Like me
I'm there. I will NEVER trust another man...especially a so-called Christian man.

Yeah, I hate fakers....I want a Christian man but if he isn't then just say sonoway
HE KNEW I WAS.......why lead me on and then later tell me he can't be as Godly as me.......I'm sorry WHAT THE HELL!!!!!!!!!!!! He said he is coming for his ring tomorrow LOL I am pawing it first thing in the morning!

Johncenawlife316's photo
Mon 03/16/09 07:45 PM





I feel numb...

Wait until you don't feel anything at allohwell ...Like me
I'm there. I will NEVER trust another man...especially a so-called Christian man.

Yeah, I hate fakers....I want a Christian man but if he isn't then just say sonoway
HE KNEW I WAS.......why lead me on and then later tell me he can't be as Godly as me.......I'm sorry WHAT THE HELL!!!!!!!!!!!! He said he is coming for his ring tomorrow LOL I am pawing it first thing in the morning!


Some ( key word ) some guys are like that as well as woman too.

Hopefully in time you will find that right guy rather or not he meets all of your needs or not is a whole other thing.

Good luck.

flowers flowers

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Mon 03/16/09 07:46 PM
Sorry for your pain.

beautyfrompain's photo
Mon 03/16/09 07:49 PM

Sorry for your pain.
thanks

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Mon 03/16/09 07:50 PM
its hard we all know that but your friends here on Mingles will be here if you need them.. just shake a tree or two we will fall out.

beautyfrompain's photo
Mon 03/16/09 07:52 PM

its hard we all know that but your friends here on Mingles will be here if you need them.. just shake a tree or two we will fall out.
how about saying a prayer for me

SitkaRains's photo
Mon 03/16/09 07:52 PM
Edited by SitkaRains on Mon 03/16/09 07:59 PM

to have your heart ripped out and handed to you...

GAWD I just reread this thread I am so sorry that this happened.

I can totally relate to how you feel. You are going to have one heck of headache tomorrow. Take some time and show his sorry but he can't be as "Godly" as you... Be the better person and continue showing those great kids what a classy mom they have
Remember there are a lot of people out here that care for you.

darkowl1's photo
Mon 03/16/09 07:59 PM


its hard we all know that but your friends here on Mingles will be here if you need them.. just shake a tree or two we will fall out.
how about saying a prayer for me


done.:cry: brokenheart :heart: smooched

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Mon 03/16/09 08:04 PM
hope it gets better with time as took me 12 years but now i'm ready to try again go figure huh

darkowl1's photo
Mon 03/16/09 08:08 PM


yes, many times, and it doesn't get easier, but i do get more numb, and can see it coming from a long way away now, so it's not painful like it was, but............numb, i work through it and talk to my friends, and focus on the people who need me which are many, including my recent ex and her fiance, that ended up homeless, and i took them in....very interesting set of feelings there. he felt very theatened, and caused a lot of friction, but i sat him down many times and talked to him and reassured him.
beauty, i wish i could take the pain away my friend, but i can give you a huge(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( huuggg!!)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) and i'm sorry flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou :heart: brokenheart
thanks.......I feel like going over there and slashing his tires. Very Christian feelings I am having. LET ME CONFESS here why I am at it. I went and got me a bottle of crown royal and coke and YEAH I'm drunk........but the pain is still here. SEE I'm not perfect and I don't feel like a Christian right now. I'm a mess!!!

you're human, and entitled to these feelings. the creator understands, and was probably sparing you from a worse disaster from this hypocritical clown.....brokenheart

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Mon 03/16/09 08:14 PM

to have your heart ripped out and handed to you...


Who is he??? Lemme at 'em.noway

JustAGuy2112's photo
Mon 03/16/09 08:16 PM



I feel numb...

Wait until you don't feel anything at allohwell ...Like me
I'm there. I will NEVER trust another man...especially a so-called Christian man.


That's why you should go for Agnostics or an Atheist.

That way....you know the dude isn't going to try to bull**** you to make himself look better in an effort to get into heaven.