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Topic: CAN Men and WOMEN JUST be FRIENDS?
Destin2gocrazy's photo
Mon 03/16/09 05:15 PM
Seriously. It can happen right? a FRIEND I met at work asked me to see a movie. I said YES without hesitating simply because I feel as if there is no attraction between the two of us. Just friends. We chit chat back and forth just fine. My gal pal on the other hand- says "dont go out with him" because it would be leading him on if he were to be intrested. So now Im confusedohwell

Cliff and I talk about "this girl" he is intrested in and I encourage him to go slow.. take his time. We are just friends. Can I go to a movie with him and not be leading him on?

OOOOOOoOOoO I HATE this single thing sometime. I feel lost. Advice wanted. ty ty ty in advanceflowerforyou

Meg8771's photo
Mon 03/16/09 05:17 PM
I would say go and have fun. It is better than not going becaise someone else says "don't, because....."

You know him better than she does. If it is a problem, talk with him about how you feel IF it comes up.

Don't slight someone just because, it is not fair to either one of you.

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Mon 03/16/09 05:19 PM
Since about the age of 15, most of my friends have been female. It's never been a problem. Women are smarter, better communicators, more interesting, better problem-solvers, more understanding, and more fun to be around than men. For me, anyway.







Moondark's photo
Mon 03/16/09 05:21 PM
He is discussing his other female interest with you. You are totally in the friend role. Have fun. Yes, I've known enough men and women who have managed to be just friends. It is totally possible.

Twitch's photo
Mon 03/16/09 05:23 PM

It is very possible and don't let anyone tell ya different. Have a good time.

shadowprincessx's photo
Mon 03/16/09 05:27 PM
its soo possible-as long as you both are honest about the deffinition of ya'lls friendship!

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Mon 03/16/09 05:27 PM

Seriously. It can happen right? a FRIEND I met at work asked me to see a movie. I said YES without hesitating simply because I feel as if there is no attraction between the two of us. Just friends. We chit chat back and forth just fine. My gal pal on the other hand- says "dont go out with him" because it would be leading him on if he were to be intrested. So now Im confusedohwell

Cliff and I talk about "this girl" he is intrested in and I encourage him to go slow.. take his time. We are just friends. Can I go to a movie with him and not be leading him on?

OOOOOOoOOoO I HATE this single thing sometime. I feel lost. Advice wanted. ty ty ty in advanceflowerforyou
YUP I have some of the HOTTEST guys ever & they are just my friends............love spock No problems there!

Meg8771's photo
Mon 03/16/09 05:28 PM

Since about the age of 15, most of my friends have been female. It's never been a problem. Women are smarter, better communicators, more interesting, better problem-solvers, more understanding, and more fun to be around than men. For me, anyway.















flowers What a nice thing to say, Lex! Thank you.

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Mon 03/16/09 05:31 PM
Men and women CAN be just friends. All of my best friends are men.
Doesn't mean anything other than we get a long great.
(and it is a good thing if you go out and a rude man hits on you. you have your friend)

MahanMahan's photo
Mon 03/16/09 05:31 PM
Go to the movies... Have a blast... But go Dutch and pay your own way!

Totage's photo
Mon 03/16/09 05:43 PM
Edited by Totage on Mon 03/16/09 05:44 PM

Seriously. It can happen right? a FRIEND I met at work asked me to see a movie. I said YES without hesitating simply because I feel as if there is no attraction between the two of us. Just friends. We chit chat back and forth just fine. My gal pal on the other hand- says "dont go out with him" because it would be leading him on if he were to be intrested. So now Im confusedohwell

Cliff and I talk about "this girl" he is intrested in and I encourage him to go slow.. take his time. We are just friends. Can I go to a movie with him and not be leading him on?

OOOOOOoOOoO I HATE this single thing sometime. I feel lost. Advice wanted. ty ty ty in advanceflowerforyou


I have alot of female friends that are just friends, it's possible. Just make sure you're clear about just being friends.

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Mon 03/16/09 05:43 PM


Since about the age of 15, most of my friends have been female. It's never been a problem. Women are smarter, better communicators, more interesting, better problem-solvers, more understanding, and more fun to be around than men. For me, anyway.


flowers What a nice thing to say, Lex! Thank you.



Well, that's been my experience, anyway....!!

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MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 03/16/09 05:45 PM
flowerforyou yes they can be friends if the woman kinda likes the guy and if the guy dont act like an idiot and say stupid stuffflowerforyou

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Mon 03/16/09 05:45 PM
I ,too, have as many female friends as male, if a freindship is based on respect, I dont think gender is an issue!!

Totage's photo
Mon 03/16/09 05:46 PM



Since about the age of 15, most of my friends have been female. It's never been a problem. Women are smarter, better communicators, more interesting, better problem-solvers, more understanding, and more fun to be around than men. For me, anyway.


flowers What a nice thing to say, Lex! Thank you.



Well, that's been my experience, anyway....!!

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I agree with you Lex! drinker

shadowprincessx's photo
Mon 03/16/09 05:46 PM

Since about the age of 15, most of my friends have been female. It's never been a problem. Women are smarter, better communicators, more interesting, better problem-solvers, more understanding, and more fun to be around than men. For me, anyway.








awww thats a man! :thumbsup:

shadowprincessx's photo
Mon 03/16/09 05:48 PM
ive had a gay guy as a bestbutty-we got along great too bad he was gay ohwell laugh miss ya chris

coysun's photo
Mon 03/16/09 05:51 PM
:smile: Of course men and women can be "just friends". I have numerous female friends that I just go with to movies, dinners, dances,etc. Some have led to more than just a date,but, afterwards we agreed it wasn't to be so let us "just be friends". Go out and enjoy life for yourself and not worry about what others think. It is your life.

coysun

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Mon 03/16/09 06:21 PM
Yes, I have a bunch of female friends that I have had for many years

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Mon 03/16/09 06:24 PM
Absolutely.

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