i had a girl who was attractive and fun and smart. she was also an alcoholic and a pot head and promiscuous (typical party girl) and didn't love me.

so fix the attractive and fun and smart part and she'd be perfect.


oops. i mean fix the other stuff.


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ooops, i seemed to have killed what could have been a pretty good thread.


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I will let you know when i meet her!

easy she likes me

need some change sweety?????

Whoever I'm with is the perfect one for me or why would I be with her if I thought she was not perfect.

If you dont want to answer the question just say so....

For one thing, she must be at least my intellectual equal. Nothing worse than watching comments and jokes sail right over someone's head.

I ask myself just that
who is my Perfect Mate?
How can you be sure?
How will you get together?
How long will it take?
Why some people get what they want,
and some don't?
What YOU have to do...and
What you should NOT do!
Some body help me my mind is so confused.

It seems like I find a person that seems like the one. Then 5 to 6 weeks later it is like something inside me just turns off the feeling that this is the one.
I wish that I knew why this happens.
I guess time will tell .

Well if I had to describe the perfect relationship it would be this. But to me it's about God being first. Communication is everything to me. Honesty, unconditional love, commitment, loyalty, and respect. Are all the ingredients to a wonderful relationship. But it's seems like everyone we (as people) meet and talk to always say the right things to one another but what is really missing is the actions behind the words. The words and actions never really ever meet. Yes there are bits and pieces but it never really goes the same way it's talked about. I'm sure you know what I mean. It's funny I think everyone has this idea of the perfect relationship, but what we should really be asking ourselves is what are willing to do to have the perfect relationship? Well as for me I want nothing less then all of the above. And won't settle for anything less. Just image just for a min how wonderful that would be for the beautiful words and the actions of the one we love actually meet. To me thats sounds like perfection. Let me know your take on it. And please understand I don't mean perfect in the literal meaning but instead complete, mature, developed and wholeness.

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."

Loves me who I am and I am able to fall i love with her.

Everything else is just details.

perfect mate.......Is someone who would love my mind body and soul, be able to cheer me up when im down make me laugh make me feel like im the only person in the world trust my honesty enjoy the craic comfort me if im sick listen to me givin off cos everybody does sometimes.there....no wait and likes the devil in me cos everybody has a devilish side tooa soul mate who knows what im thinking without having to say anything

Do you think im way off????

I agree.. God at the center all things are possible........ I love that verse too...

no.. sounds great!

someone without money but full of love in his heart

hmmmmmm.....

You can call my love Sophia