Single women complain that all good men are married, while all married women complain about their lousy husbands.Is this confirms that there is no such thing as a good man?

Maybe the good men marry lousy women........

Another interpretation might be that there's no such thing as a woman who can ever be satisfied.

Blanket interpretations are problematic, at best.

Maybe the marriage ruins the man.

I was just gonna say the same thing!!! also there is just no pleasing some people

Many people just don't find the right person to spend their life with therefore they of course are going to think their spouse/significant other is lousy. So yes there are good men and women out there but with the wrong person! Of course I want one that is totally unattached to another person LOL.

i agree with you

Good point

depends on what your definition of good is lol

It certainly contributed a lot in my case....

I think if a person let's marriage ruin them then that is making the ex a winner and you a loser meaning that you are allowing this person to dictate how you feel about future relationships. I've been married more than once and I refuse to ever give any of my ex's that kind of power. And I refuse to think all men are like my ex's because they are not.

hey now

I infer from your sentence..."marriage ruins the man"

You're absolutely right and I agree with you 100%.

My statement was more-or-less laying some of the blame on the woman, and her contribution (in general of course) to the demise of any of her own relationships.

It's not the mariage that ruins the man.But mostly the woman.Becouse when your married the woman will try to chaince the man to an image
that she have of a perfect man.And when that happend,the man can not be himself anymore.And that is the beginning of the end.It's start
subtile but on the end....divorce!!

Haha, that attempt to change the other works both ways sir.

Then isn't the man a fake if he is allowing a woman to make him be someone that he is not? Also I would think a man that allows a woman to make him be that what he is not is not truly a man afterall. I know that I cannot and will not make a man change to be what I want him to be. If I don't like him now then I sure wouldn't like him later.

I think it's way too easy in this day and age to give up at the first sign of a problem. I've heard too many stories about how relationships end because neither person is willing to nut up and say 'Hey, there's a problem, let's deal with it". Instead they let it go, allowing it to build and build until one day a sock on the floor ends in an arguement that ends in court with divorce papers.
Communication, loyalty, a willingness to admit when you're wrong and fix the problem makes it a good relationship. Men and Women are both guilty.
Having gone through this myself not too long ago, I get it. My ex should have talked to me about how he was feeling, instead he just gave up and threw in the towel. Without talking about it, without coming to me, nothing..he just gave up.
Relationships are hard work, anything worth having is. There is no way anyone can say they don't or won't argue with their S.O., get real. OF COURSE you're going to bicker. Mutual respect may help keep it to a minimum but it's going to happen.
It's easy in the beginning with the first flush of affection, lust and then love to say it's going to be wonderful all day every day. Trials and tribulations will make or break a relationship, how you deal with them will make or break it.
Just my thoughts.
Not all men are lieing, cheating low down jerks, and not all women are low down sluts either. Past relationships will not dictate to me how I deal with a current one. I take what I can from the things that happened, learn my lessons and apply that knowledge and hard earned wisdom to keep me from re-making mistakes.

For a part is it right what you say'd.But what if the try's to do
everything to keep the peace in the house.Should he go against the wiches of his woman or accept what she ask from him.it's a choice he have to make;peace or trouble??