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Topic: Love is worth everything,
Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Thu 03/12/09 08:59 AM
Read Maslow's hierarchy of needs and tell me how you feel after that, I covers basic human needs. And the levels and degrees we each seek. People are comfortable at different levels and some never pursue actualization.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Thu 03/12/09 09:33 AM
LOL Maslow's hierarchy of needs was Psych 101, I know all about it. Food Shelter and so on. I don't mean a person having nothing literally, I mean without the feeling of love and/or being loved, it feels like having nothing. Literal much?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 03/12/09 09:35 AM
no that's not love, you don't hurt what you love Then why do you hurt me sometimes Peccy?

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Thu 03/12/09 09:39 AM
no that's not love, you don't hurt what you love Then why do you hurt me sometimes Peccy? That has already been answered my friend, figure it out.......lol

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Thu 03/12/09 09:43 AM
LOL Maslow's hierarchy of needs was Psych 101, I know all about it. Food Shelter and so on. I don't mean a person having nothing literally, I mean without the feeling of love and/or being loved, it feels like having nothing. Literal much? Generalize much??

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Thu 03/12/09 09:45 AM Edited by Peccy on Thu 03/12/09 09:47 AM
LOL Maslow's hierarchy of needs was Psych 101, I know all about it. Food Shelter and so on. I don't mean a person having nothing literally, I mean without the feeling of love and/or being loved, it feels like having nothing. Literal much? Generalize much?? lol.........you love locking horns with me! And answering a question with a question?

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Thu 03/12/09 09:49 AM
LOL Maslow's hierarchy of needs was Psych 101, I know all about it. Food Shelter and so on. I don't mean a person having nothing literally, I mean without the feeling of love and/or being loved, it feels like having nothing. Literal much? Generalize much?? lol.........you love locking horns with me! And answering a question with a question? Ummmm, it looks like I am not the only one on here, that asks a question with a question, eh??

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Thu 03/12/09 09:52 AM Edited by Peccy on Thu 03/12/09 10:02 AM
LOL Maslow's hierarchy of needs was Psych 101, I know all about it. Food Shelter and so on. I don't mean a person having nothing literally, I mean. Literal much? Generalize much?? lol.........you love locking horns with me! And answering a question with a question? Ummmm, it looks like I am not the only one on here, that asks a question with a question, eh?? LOL! Ok since you seem to have the LITERAL hat on, that was a generalization when I said, "without the feeling of love and/or being loved, it feels like having nothing" I was speaking for myself. But come on, you are female. You don't get emotional when that happens? So what you're essentially saying is that not having love will not hurt us? What about parental love, sibling love? I never specified what type of love, I simply said love.

Rob2882 Joined Sat 03/07/09 Posts: 138	Thu 03/12/09 02:18 PM
I'm gonna hide now...

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Thu 03/12/09 02:34 PM
no it would not hurt me, I can live without love from others. I will give you this much though. I do believe self love to be important more than any other.

wannacuddlewthme Joined Tue 11/11/08 Posts: 7110	Thu 03/12/09 02:37 PM
I love me...Some me

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Fri 03/13/09 01:07 AM
no it would not hurt me, I can live without love from others. I will give you this much though. I do believe self love to be important more than any other. Ok yes, I could "live" without love, not like I have to have it. But I don't want to be without love in my life be it family or significant other. I believe a lot of people claim they could survive just fine without it, but what if your children stopped loving you or anyone in your family? No doubt you would survive, but it would be a dour existence... maybe even one not worth living for? See my point now? If you say it would not hurt you, to at least some extent then I think you're not being honest with yourself.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 03/13/09 01:10 AM
no it would not hurt me, I can live without love from others. I will give you this much though. I do believe self love to be important more than any other. Ok yes, I could "live" without love, not like I have to have it. But I don't want to be without love in my life be it family or significant other. I believe a lot of people claim they could survive just fine without it, but what if your children stopped loving you or anyone in your family? No doubt you would survive, but it would be a dour existence... maybe even one not worth living for? See my point now? If you say it would not hurt you, to at least some extent then I think you're not being honest with yourself. I concur!!

Crushcraft Joined Thu 03/12/09 Posts: 65	Fri 03/13/09 01:18 AM
OK...I'm still fresh meat here,so I know my thought doesn't count...if it DID,it would be "LOVE"...the strongest human desire, Crush

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Fri 03/13/09 06:30 AM Edited by Seakolony on Fri 03/13/09 06:34 AM
I never said it wouldnlt hurt, said I wouldn't shrivel up and die. I could move on and exist and conform to changes, have done it all my life......next! Besides you asked if I would be nothing w/o it and all I am saying is no I would not be nothing w/o it. Quit picking apart my answers and move the flip on, geez already.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Fri 03/13/09 07:51 AM
"no it would not hurt me."............lol yes you did say that...ok I'll stop, but I never started! Truce before you get really po'ed at me!

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Fri 03/13/09 07:55 AM
If I can cut in here, I think humans need other people and love to flourish. I mean any kind of love. Love between a parent and a child, etc. etc. etc.

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Fri 03/13/09 08:01 AM
"no it would not hurt me."............lol yes you did say that...ok I'll stop, but I never started! Truce before you get really po'ed at me! not forever I recover quickly. maybe a day or too, but I meant significant others, I can move on, I am over this thread and this argumentative friendship with you.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 03/13/09 08:05 AM
Jeez let it go!!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 03/13/09 08:38 AM
because without it, you have nothing. Who agrees? Love is great and all, but I wouldn't say you have nothing without it. Then again, there's still a lot of love around even if you're not dating someone. Love can come from family and friends, too.