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Topic: Detachment....Attachment
Seakolony's photo
Wed 03/11/09 05:20 AM
Edited by Seakolony on Wed 03/11/09 05:33 AM
How easy is it for you to attach/detach to others??

Is there a difference for you via internet vs. in person?? What are the differences for you??

Jess642's photo
Wed 03/11/09 05:24 AM
Hmmmmmmmmm... no.

I have my loves, my like minded... and my abrasives, that keep me real... no detachment from them...


and anyone else?

The same...

I expect people to keep me real... and tell me how they see it... as I do others...

what's good for this goose, is good for that gander...:wink:

bgeorge's photo
Wed 03/11/09 05:24 AM
attatch noway

detatchwaving

real lifedrinker

internetglasses

therapy30's photo
Wed 03/11/09 05:24 AM

How easy is it for you to attach/detach to others??

Is there a difference for you via internet vs. in person??



tough to detach sometimes, but , actually it depends on the intensity of a relation.
in person is the next step after internetwaving

lilith401's photo
Wed 03/11/09 05:29 AM
Once I let people in, they are usually in.


Seakolony's photo
Wed 03/11/09 05:29 AM


How easy is it for you to attach/detach to others??

Is there a difference for you via internet vs. in person??



tough to detach sometimes, but , actually it depends on the intensity of a relation.
in person is the next step after internetwaving

What I asked was how easy is it for via internet vs. in person??

therapy30's photo
Wed 03/11/09 05:30 AM



How easy is it for you to attach/detach to others??

Is there a difference for you via internet vs. in person??



tough to detach sometimes, but , actually it depends on the intensity of a relation.
in person is the next step after internetwaving

What I asked was how easy is it for via internet vs. in person??

in person is easier

Jess642's photo
Wed 03/11/09 05:31 AM
My response to your question, does not require differentiating, as I dont... internet and real time are the same.......I never neglect to remember there are REAL people behind the keyboards.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 03/11/09 05:33 AM
Hello waving

Bye waving


:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

Seakolony's photo
Wed 03/11/09 05:33 AM

My response to your question, does not require differentiating, as I dont... internet and real time are the same.......I never neglect to remember there are REAL people behind the keyboards.

Very good Jess, thank you for you input...sweetheart.

Seakolony's photo
Wed 03/11/09 05:35 AM

Once I let people in, they are usually in.



I knew you be open to others, yet cautious. :thumbsup:

therapy30's photo
Wed 03/11/09 05:35 AM

My response to your question, does not require differentiating, as I dont... internet and real time are the same.......I never neglect to remember there are REAL people behind the keyboards.


Don't you think body language is an important aspect...I guess thats not visible via internet.

Seakolony's photo
Wed 03/11/09 05:35 AM

Hello waving

Bye waving


:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:


Hello, sweetie. How are you??

74Drew's photo
Wed 03/11/09 05:36 AM
i don't get attached. i haven't met anyone that can't be replaced.


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lilith401's photo
Wed 03/11/09 05:37 AM


Once I let people in, they are usually in.



I knew you be open to others, yet cautious. :thumbsup:


Yeah, the more experience I gain in life, the better my instincts tend to be.

DragonFlyTat's photo
Wed 03/11/09 05:38 AM
My attatchment to the people that I see daily are stronger because I see them on a daily basis as with the internet I might not get on it for days. However, there are some friends on here that I am closer to than in my everyday life.

Seakolony's photo
Wed 03/11/09 05:42 AM

i don't get attached. i haven't met anyone that can't be replaced.


. . .


How sad. :cry:

Seakolony's photo
Wed 03/11/09 05:43 AM


i don't get attached. i haven't met anyone that can't be replaced.


. . .


How sad. :cry:


Do you think others may have trouble attaching to you because of it??
Do you believe that maybe why you are single for so long??

no photo
Wed 03/11/09 06:12 AM
I think its just as easy if not easier to get attached via the internet ...if not more so.. because sometime people build up things in their minds that are not actually there.
as for in person its more down to earth you see first hand and some of the "hype" is not there. Yet it more solid and less disappointing.

as for detached? It is easy also on the internet because you know it just isn't a viable or possible situation ...distance. being the biggest reason. In real face to face life that's just showing indifference to someone isn't it?

Seakolony's photo
Wed 03/11/09 06:18 AM

I think its just as easy if not easier to get attached via the internet ...if not more so.. because sometime people build up things in their minds that are not actually there.
as for in person its more down to earth you see first hand and some of the "hype" is not there. Yet it more solid and less disappointing.

as for detached? It is easy also on the internet because you know it just isn't a viable or possible situation ...distance. being the biggest reason. In real face to face life that's just showing indifference to someone isn't it?

Thank you for your thoughts!! :smile:

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