absolutely brilliant!!!!!!!!!

I think I've had enough of this posting. How many duplicate postings of this rant are there, i've counted 3 so far?

It sounds to me like you're past the point of talking. Ask yourself what kind of person you think she is. Is she shallow...is there hope? Will she change? If she is not willing to see what she is doing on her own than there will never be change. Without change you can only endure it some more or get out.

Not all women are that way. Some times I feel like men are all the same too but keep your head up. She may be what you want right now but she may not be whats best for you. Not "healthy" I mean. It sounds like you're doing your part so you might want to reevaluate what you're still doing in that relationship. Sure it would hurt but anymore than what you're going through right now?

I spent 3 years trying to change my husband and I finally realized that the only one who needed changing was me. I needed to make that change for myself and stop waiting for him to do it because it was NEVER going to happen....never.

I am alone right now but strangly enough, I'm at peace. I don't have to fight anymore or cry myself to sleep each night. I don't dread coming home to an empty house. The hurt will pass but you still have a lifetime of happiness that can be had if you choose to.

~Sincerely,
Kristi

my impression is that he is asking of the women here their opinion not looking to hook up! sure he should talk with her first and try to straighten it all out.. But just because he is here does not mean he is on the prowl..

ahemm.. how many here are here to just vent , make friends, enjoy the threads? and yes some are here for more..

I see the boot dropping! That is total BS. I say you have grounds for dismissal! I say you even have grounds to dismiss her via meeting the new GF in your bed when she comes home!


At least I am that bad!

If your going to piss on someone's lawn then expect yours to get pissed on in return! Dog's Law number seven...

Ok big- you're gonna get it anyway. Heeeeeere goes.....first off your a big strong man. I don't know you from jack. You're a combat decorated vet. You know your strengths and weaknesses. You know respect. You know self reliance and survival. You know pride of accomplishment. Now you bust your ass at 2 government jobs and kick ass in providing better. You're not happy at the lack of appreciation and the disrespect. You have to make one of 2 decisions. You have to take action. No choice. Your first choice is to work out the situations with all resources available to you and build a working relationship. Your other choice is to end it, move on, and be prepared for where the chips may fall. Either way venting is not action for which you are known for. Venting is just venting. Good luck. Follow your instinct. Follow through. Do what's right. Your welcome.

Read his profile......then you'll understand what I meant, or not. Believe me, I regretted ever posting here.

Awwww, don't let em get to ya. Sometimes people don't get enough information to speak clearly or react on what little they see. Sometimes you can successfully point them in the right direction and get an "OH NOW I UNDERSTAND" message back. Patience my lady...

I hear ya. I was more talking about the fact that I didn't recognize it to be "another one of those".... I welcome challenges to my opinion, especially on a day like today. I got up on the wrong side of the bed.