i met a girl on mingle 2 that lives in michigan me and her have a lot in common she is a really nice girl that has everything im looking for in a woman.we exchanged numbers and everything we talk almost everyday but the thing is this i live in milwaukee,wi and she lives seven hours from me i feel sad that i cant see her i want to be with her but it seems like we wont see eachother what can i do because i really like her

Find a way my man find a way

Well, what did you expect? Precisely the reason a lot of LDR's don't work. You have to be prepared mentally and physically to do what it takes to keep it alive or it's gone. I just don't get that people don't THINK about this beforehand.

You have lots to think about, are one of you willing to move?
I personally won't do a LDR, I'm not moving either.

If you love her, get off your ass and go get her.

my girlfriend lives in another country about 1400 miles away and we've been together over two years.

she is either worth it to you or she isnt

only you can decide that

I had a LDR. It took me 18 years to get back home!

Thats where I live

Peep game son

If you can't get around a 7 hour difference then you are either lame or you really don't care for her.

Take a greyhound.......they arent that expensive. And go online to some of the airlines and put it on fair watcher.

just do something..meet her at least.

Unless you don't have a vehicle...7hrs is a day trip! You work 8hrs a day for a living, right? What's 7hrs for a "loving"?

He probably can't last 3 minutes anyway.

Besides the obvious you or her move, if you or her mean that much to each other find a way to move, in my case if i loved someone nothing would stop me from being with her or getting her to me.
Besides 7 hours is only 5 cd's away lol plan weekend trips and alternate come over friday leave sunday and rotate locations every week or every other week.
Just my 2 cents:D

Only 7 hours? Hop on a bus be there in her arms by night fall.

I understand what you are saying that it doesn't seem much to make that one trip. What happens the next time and the next time though? Travel is expensive. I think we have to be realistic. Either you need to have money to burn and the time to do it or you just can't do it. Why drag out a "relationship" if you know the logistics of it just aren't going to work? In my mind, it's just setting yourself up for failure. Or maybe I'm unusual and like to see the person I'm dating more than 2-4 times a year. I dunno...I'm pessimistic about such things I guess.

another guy whining? Then why in the name of all that's right did you start a long distance relationship if you won't get off your azz to make it work?

Wait! There is hope. I'm putting the finishing touches on my internet teleportation device. The only problem seems to be getting volunteers to test it. Unfortunately, the last tester turned into Brundlefly.