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Is it harder for you to forgive yourself or others??
Are you too hard on yourself when it comes to stuff like that?? |
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Yes Im hard on me.. others well thats different..
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Yes Im hard on me.. others well thats different..
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Edited by
jtip1977
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Tue 03/10/09 12:43 PM
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I am definitely not known for holding a grudge with anyone. So I am definitely harder on myself than others.
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OTHERS!!! I can be a reai b@$)h
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I bury everything & continue on.
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Yes sometimes...cuz I should know better... But I also feel that as a spirit, I chose this life...& as a human, I must remember to forgive myself when I fall...
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You said...."hard on".
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You said...."hard on". Yea but I did not highlight it in inverted commas... |
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I hate to hurt people and sometimes its just unavoidable. That's when I am the hardest on myself. Others I tend to forgive to easily.
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I was always held to impossibly high standards growing up and was blamed for everything even when I had nothing to do with it, so I learned to be very strict with myself and I have a difficult time feeling successful at anything. So yeah, it's a lot harder to forgive myself than others because I can't change others, only myself and I can't figure out how to stop beating myself up.
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I hate to hurt people and sometimes its just unavoidable. That's when I am the hardest on myself. Others I tend to forgive to easily. Well said 
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Is it harder for you to forgive yourself or others?? Are you too hard on yourself when it comes to stuff like that?? Myself for sure. I usually don't need anyone else to beat me up about something, I've already got it covered. |
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Is it harder for you to forgive yourself or others?? Are you too hard on yourself when it comes to stuff like that?? I can forgive very easily of others. Myself not so easy, I am my own worst enemy when it comes to this. I have been told that I expect to much out of myself and that I am a bit of a perfectionist. Now saying that, I may forgive I dont' usually forget. |
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Hi Rain!!! Miss ya girl! Muah!
Now...back to the topic. I have no use for forgiveness... Not for myself. Not for others. The only apology I will accept is to NEVER have that person do me wrong again. The only apology I can give, is to NEVER do that person wrong again. My good friends have figured this out the hard way. |
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i forgive every body including myself pretty easily what is life if you dont make mistakes...thats part of living, growing old, and just being alive so what'd be the point of holding a grudge
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i forgive every body including myself pretty easily what is life if you dont make mistakes...thats part of living, growing old, and just being alive so what'd be the point of holding a grudge I'm with him. 
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Is it harder for you to forgive yourself or others?? Are you too hard on yourself when it comes to stuff like that?? A. Yes. B. No, because I have to push myself to try to be better, because laxity is not a virtue. |
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Edited by
TJN
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Wed 03/11/09 12:45 AM
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Is it harder for you to forgive yourself or others?? Are you too hard on yourself when it comes to stuff like that?? it depends opon what the topic is |
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Is it harder for you to forgive yourself or others?? Are you too hard on yourself when it comes to stuff like that?? 
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