Topic: is there life after seperation
Serchin4MyRedWine's photo
Mon 03/09/09 03:57 PM
most states grant fast divorces (2-3 months) but there may still be some states that "require" a year separation. That may be a bit too long. There are also loop holes...If both partners agree to tell the judge they haven't had sex in a year....they will fast track divorce. Don't know how long you've been "seperated" but if it's more then a year or two..you can't blame a woman for being suspiciouslaugh

nickelback9's photo
Mon 03/09/09 03:59 PM
i love kids and i would love to find a lady , with or without its all good

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 03/09/09 03:59 PM
Yes there is life after seperation , I have been seperated for almost 4 years & I have gone on some dates, I'm also getting divorced on april 12th:banana:

nickelback9's photo
Mon 03/09/09 04:01 PM
seperated here for two months but she was a very mean person, i was over her a long time ago ,

nickelback9's photo
Mon 03/09/09 04:02 PM
we were married only 1 year and it sucked hard

Mayhem_J's photo
Mon 03/09/09 04:04 PM
Just be patient daniel-son.

Serchin4MyRedWine's photo
Mon 03/09/09 04:06 PM

we were married only 1 year and it sucked hard

WOW that was quick...sorry to hear thatohwell

nickelback9's photo
Mon 03/09/09 04:07 PM
this is my third marriage, #1 lasted 2 years #2 lasted 7 years #3 one year she just wasnt the one for me we were together for 3 years and she just kept getting worse

Mayhem_J's photo
Mon 03/09/09 04:08 PM
Damn son...you seem to be the common denominator in these equasions.

nickelback9's photo
Mon 03/09/09 04:08 PM
im just glad that i am free from her tyranny

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 03/09/09 04:08 PM

this is my third marriage, #1 lasted 2 years #2 lasted 7 years #3 one year she just wasnt the one for me we were together for 3 years and she just kept getting worse



Perhaps that's a signdrinker

nickelback9's photo
Mon 03/09/09 04:08 PM
yes i keep finding miss wrong

lovly79's photo
Mon 03/09/09 04:12 PM
Im separated... I dont see the point in waiting until the divorce is final.. Only because why would i want to waste my time? I dont want to grow old alone. you will eventually find someone... As for me, I have not found the right man yet!!!

Serchin4MyRedWine's photo
Mon 03/09/09 04:13 PM
maybe you should take "will you marry me" off your vocabulary list for about 10 yearslaugh laugh

nickelback9's photo
Mon 03/09/09 04:15 PM
you never know who mister right is until you get out and try, be bold , daring get numbers, for every 10 that i get i get lucky at least three times , so you never know just try, you wont find it here, unless they are real

nickelback9's photo
Mon 03/09/09 04:15 PM
i dont think i could do that , i will try until i cant get married

Serchin4MyRedWine's photo
Mon 03/09/09 04:16 PM

Im separated... I dont see the point in waiting until the divorce is final.. Only because why would i want to waste my time? I dont want to grow old alone. you will eventually find someone... As for me, I have not found the right man yet!!!

I doubt you have anything to worry about...I'm sure you have lots of guys that would want to grow old with you:tongue: laugh

lovly79's photo
Mon 03/09/09 04:16 PM
Well so far this is not working for me... Alot of fakes.. but im still trying.. thats all you have to do it try, and just keep your eyes open..

lovly79's photo
Mon 03/09/09 04:17 PM


Im separated... I dont see the point in waiting until the divorce is final.. Only because why would i want to waste my time? I dont want to grow old alone. you will eventually find someone... As for me, I have not found the right man yet!!!

I doubt you have anything to worry about...I'm sure you have lots of guys that would want to grow old with you:tongue: laugh



Well i dont know about that one..

Serchin4MyRedWine's photo
Mon 03/09/09 04:18 PM
Think thats your problem...why do you feel so compelled to get married....with your track record...maybe you should just have a long lasting relationship first...JMOdrinker