Topic: Do you believe in soul mates
DragonFlyTat's photo
Tue 03/10/09 06:20 AM
I believe because I found him and married him...but here is my question. The boyfriend that I have now (because my husband passed away) says I am his soulmate. However I don't and can't say that back to him because my husband was my sould mate. So can I be his soul mate even though I already had mine?

tessa68's photo
Tue 03/10/09 06:25 AM

Hello all you happy people of this website.

A simple question which is…Do you believe in soul mates, and if so then why.

See I promised it was a simple question.


yes, but where is he?:cry: :cry: :cry:

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Tue 03/10/09 06:39 AM

actually you can have more than one soulmate in this life time.

Really? It's nice to hear this. I never heard it and when mine died, I thought I was lost.

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Tue 03/10/09 06:40 AM

I believe because I found him and married him...but here is my question. The boyfriend that I have now (because my husband passed away) says I am his soulmate. However I don't and can't say that back to him because my husband was my sould mate. So can I be his soul mate even though I already had mine?
Email me if you want to talk. Mine died too.

Seakolony's photo
Tue 03/10/09 06:47 AM
I believe in more of a personality complimenting another, along with belief system, and dedication to the relationship. Compromise and loving another despite certain differences, occassionally. I do believe certain souls compliment others and certains souls conflict with others.

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Tue 03/10/09 06:56 AM
I never used to believe until I found mine. What I'm trying to understand is if I get a second chance after mine died. I know Canadian Geese choose just one mate for life and if that one dies, they're apt to die right along side them.

etihn's photo
Tue 03/10/09 09:09 AM

I believe because I found him and married him...but here is my question. The boyfriend that I have now (because my husband passed away) says I am his soulmate. However I don't and can't say that back to him because my husband was my sould mate. So can I be his soul mate even though I already had mine?


There should no feeling of guilt on that subject, and even if you did not consider your boy as soul mate, you will still be a blessing to him.

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Tue 03/10/09 09:30 AM
Absolutely. Enjoy the ride and find the fun and good in your life.

scoundrel's photo
Tue 03/10/09 09:32 AM

I never used to believe until I found mine. What I'm trying to understand is if I get a second chance after mine died. I know Canadian Geese choose just one mate for life and if that one dies, they're apt to die right along side them.


I know the feeling. My gal gooses me. smitten

BigGlenn's photo
Tue 03/10/09 09:33 AM

I believe in sould mates, but that doesn't mean he/she is the person you will spend the rest of your life with.


I agree totally.

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Tue 03/10/09 10:21 AM
But he could be. Could there be a second one in my life?

ljcc1964's photo
Tue 03/10/09 12:49 PM


I never used to believe until I found mine. What I'm trying to understand is if I get a second chance after mine died. I know Canadian Geese choose just one mate for life and if that one dies, they're apt to die right along side them.


I know the feeling. My gal gooses me. smitten


No I don't......but I will.....pitchfork

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Wed 03/11/09 07:10 AM
We'll just have to wait and see.

lilith401's photo
Wed 03/11/09 07:12 AM
I do not believe in soulmates.

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Wed 03/11/09 07:14 AM
What do you believe leads people to the someone that lasts 70 years?

therapy30's photo
Wed 03/11/09 07:15 AM
I believe, its all about personality match. Call it anything

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Wed 03/11/09 07:18 AM
There are many things to call it, I guess...soulmates, compatibility, perfect match, mutual respect or just plain getting along and fully understanding your mate.

DragonFlyTat's photo
Wed 03/11/09 07:18 AM

We'll just have to wait and see.
can't email you because you have your email set so only men and certain people can email you. I do believe you will love again, just in a different way. You will find different ways to express your love with a new man than with your husband.

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Wed 03/11/09 07:22 AM
added as a friend :smile:

etihn's photo
Wed 03/11/09 09:35 AM
Love is but only a word, it's the effort shown behind the actionflowerforyou