Topic: A little help....
misstina2's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:00 AM
flowerforyou just be honestflowerforyou tell him you're concerned about the lack of sexflowerforyou

freedomrings08's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:01 AM
I will try thank you.

lilith401's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:02 AM

How do I talk to him about it? Thank you so much lilth


You just lay it out there.... you just tell him sex is important to you and his not wanting to have sex with you is hurting your feelings. You tell him you started the relationship with an amount that was still lower than you wanted and for him to cut it out completely or almost so is not okay with you. If he is not willing to have sex, then you need to decide what to do from there. You are not asking for anything other than for him to be intimate with you.

If in any way he gets defensive or blames you.... hmm. Well. Then he is most likely a _________.

AndyBgood's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:02 AM

How do I talk to him about it? Thank you so much lilth


Unfortunately he has to be put on the spot. Either he comes clean with you about everything or he goes out the door. When the sex dries up so does the love! if he is having problems since he is in a relationship with you his problems are vicariously yours. If he can't face them with your knowledge then something wrong is up. Be ready to either put on your walking shoes or your kicking boots! Either way a decision has to be made where you two are going to go from there. it isn't like you have a serious commitment with him yet.

7z3r05's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:02 AM
try ripping his clothes off.

misstina2's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:03 AM

try ripping his clothes off.
drinker drinker drinker

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Mon 03/09/09 10:07 AM
Maybe he needs viagra?:banana:

freedomrings08's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:07 AM
Thank you all so much. I will talk with him tonight.


Thats another thing, I hate to pretty much ask for it, makes me feel selfish.

no photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:10 AM

hes probably gay


I agree with Cottonelle...after looking at your profile, he would almost HAVE to be gay!

misstina2's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:11 AM

Thank you all so much. I will talk with him tonight.


Thats another thing, I hate to pretty much ask for it, makes me feel selfish.
don't feel selfishflowerforyou I wouldn't ask:tongue: I'd just go for it:tongue:

lilith401's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:11 AM

Thank you all so much. I will talk with him tonight.


Thats another thing, I hate to pretty much ask for it, makes me feel selfish.


That is not being selfish.

Nova86's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:14 AM
yeah, something is definitely not right either with him or with the relationship.....good luck tonight with that talk and i hope you get it all resolved and get laid tonight drinker drinker

cottonelle's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:18 AM

try ripping his clothes off.

or do a little roll playing. meet him at the door wearing nothing but a strap-on and a cowboy hat and tell him to call you roy

jdcolvin's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:19 AM
I know someone who did his girl this way because he had a bump on his equipment..After two weeks I convienced him to go to the doctor and it was flea bites...He knew he hadnt cheated and thought she had but didnt want to confront the issue..They almost broke up over this when neither had done anything wrong..

Filmfreek's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:19 AM

Hello everyone, I'm kinda new here. I just need some help for now please.

Me an my boyfriend have been together for about 6months now, I do love him. But I feel that he is not sexual attracted to me anymore, we never really have sex much anymore. I understand after work he is tired. But the one evening I told him I did want him an he said "The best time to get me is in the morning" ok thats fine by me I can wait..then morning comes an its like he totally forgets what was said last night. I try to make the first move but he then starts to act funny. If someone could please let me know whats going on here. Im so confused an really hurt. Thanks. flowerforyou


Is he a heavy drinker and or drug user? How old is he?

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Mon 03/09/09 10:20 AM
uh oh..........he has no mojo!!!noway

Winx's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:22 AM


Hello everyone, I'm kinda new here. I just need some help for now please.

Me an my boyfriend have been together for about 6months now, I do love him. But I feel that he is not sexual attracted to me anymore, we never really have sex much anymore. I understand after work he is tired. But the one evening I told him I did want him an he said "The best time to get me is in the morning" ok thats fine by me I can wait..then morning comes an its like he totally forgets what was said last night. I try to make the first move but he then starts to act funny. If someone could please let me know whats going on here. Im so confused an really hurt. Thanks. flowerforyou


Is he a heavy drinker and or drug user? How old is he?


Good point. That can cause it too.

freedomrings08's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:23 AM
no drugs or drinking. He is 30

Winx's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:25 AM

no drugs or drinking. He is 30


Are you 110% sure?

misstina2's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:26 AM

no drugs or drinking. He is 30
I'd be inquiring if this has happen in past relationshipsflowerforyou