Thanks guys.

Hello, I am kinda new so I thought I would say hello, how are you all today?

Just to let everyone know... had the talk with him last night. It went a lot better then I thought. We are gonna work on finding something we both enjoy doing. Thank you everyone for helping me through that.

I feel silly doing it.

pretty much degrade him, hitting, whipping etc. that type of stuff

I'm sure he is not using drugs, he drinks but very rarely. well the other issue is he is not normal when it comes to sex.. he is very kinky and dark. I want to try some of that stuff but something holds me back. I need to learn to just let go and do it.

no drugs or drinking. He is 30

Thank you all so much. I will talk with him tonight.


Thats another thing, I hate to pretty much ask for it, makes me feel selfish.

I will try thank you.

How do I talk to him about it? Thank you so much lilth

after bout 5months I moved in. Sex before wasn't much but still was more then now. I just don't understand whats going on.. he is not acting any different, still plays around with me and jokes around, still says he loves me. Everything is the same just the sex, I am starting to think I'm just being selfish. I don't know I am so lost.

no meds he is pretty healthy. Yes we do live together.

Hello everyone, I'm kinda new here. I just need some help for now please.

Me an my boyfriend have been together for about 6months now, I do love him. But I feel that he is not sexual attracted to me anymore, we never really have sex much anymore. I understand after work he is tired. But the one evening I told him I did want him an he said "The best time to get me is in the morning" ok thats fine by me I can wait..then morning comes an its like he totally forgets what was said last night. I try to make the first move but he then starts to act funny. If someone could please let me know whats going on here. Im so confused an really hurt. Thanks.