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In my own personal case, it's less about who I'm attracted to than it is about who I'm attracting- I seem to be a magnet for the same type of woman, which is rather disconcerting to say the least.
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Well for me I seem to attract all types of people might have something to do with our personalities I can walk in a supermarket and walk out with a new friend
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Edited by
Peccy
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Sun 03/22/09 10:58 PM
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It's hard to see what you NEED when your blinded by what you WANT!!! 
Interesting...I think I am generally attracted by some mis-guided "need" - you know, that "someone to complete" me stuff. I think when you just choose because you WANT someone, it can be healthier and you stay in control of your emotions more. Maybe it's must semantics. 
I don't know, seems like when people know you care, they start acting like fools, lol. Well that goes for me, for sure! But it's more like the "I've got a crush" idiocy mode...I get tongue-tied and stupid like nobody's business. It's ridiculous...I'm old enough NOT to behave like I'm in Jr. High! Egads! 
Omg, are we related, lol. I do the same thing. We have to start acting like we don't give a crap. For some reason, people respond to that better, lol. act like a badazz..it works GREAT |
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Edited by
Moondark
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Sun 03/22/09 11:02 PM
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The other week, I saw a guy that caused that visceral attraction at first sight thing.
My second reaction was that if I was that attracted to him then he must be a total ass. Because everyone I've been that strongly attracted to has turned out to be awful. If there is a secret to changing the type of people to whom we are attracted, I would sure love to know. |
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I'm attracted to crazy women. Must be. Seems like I gotta crazy chick magnet in my pocket.
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I've been outta the dating loop for so long now that I'm not sure what I'm attracted to anymore.. Hmm, now that's either a good thing or a very, very bad thing.
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I'm not attracted to the wrong people the wrong people are attracted to me
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I say WE as in everybody on Mingle2 who is still searching. And if we are attracted to the wrong folks, how to we go about changing what we like in order to have what we need, or do we??? INDULGE yourself with the WRONG GUYS...pleeeeeeeeze? 
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Tue 03/24/09 12:36 PM
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how to we go about changing what we like in order to have what we need, or do we??? Vigorous emotional and physical evaluation.
Life is a big test..multiple choice question, and each question is different for everyone and others' answers are not necessarily correct on yours. |
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You can change your "type of person you are attracted to", but in order to change that you have to take a look at you and change you first. It has to do with recognizing what in you makes you appealing or appeal to a certain type of person. What characteristics traits do your portary yourself that may turn off a particular type you wish to appeal to?? So on and so forth.....Good luck to you.
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For me it is, not looking for what i want. It's looking for what will make me happy. Alot of the time i feel we get caught up in what were use to so will stay with what were comfortable with. I started looking beyond on that and i'm thinking right now. It's easy to find someone for me on this site and i could get a date or two. But the thing is, am i willing to pay the price of, lets just say hooking up with some that i know is wrong for me. Or, do i wait and see whats really out there. I chose to wait. Yeah i did meet somone on here,and it didn't work out. Although, the thing i don't like is putting that trust out there, and at the same time if i don't. How will i ever know
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 i like them ALL
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You can change your "type of person you are attracted to", but in order to change that you have to take a look at you and change you first. It has to do with recognizing what in you makes you appealing or appeal to a certain type of person. What characteristics traits do your portary yourself that may turn off a particular type you wish to appeal to?? So on and so forth.....Good luck to you. This is inline with the idea that 'the most consistent factor in all my dysfunctional relationships is ME' If I want to have a different kind of relationship with a woman, then I have to be a different person than I was in the dysfunctional relationships. |
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seems like it for me
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how to we go about changing what we like in order to have what we need, or do we??? Vigorous emotional and physical evaluation.
Life is a big test..multiple choice question, and each question is different for everyone and others' answers are not necessarily correct on yours. 
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yep,,,,that's it,,,in a nutshell....that's why some of us,,just
quit walking....we are blind in love,,,therefore,,,we have someone else that is blind as a bat lead us around...LOL.....it's just a human thing....and it's all written in the Word.....i guess, all we can do is laugh about it,,,and keep going......Love will eventually concore ALL... 
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I say WE as in everybody on Mingle2 who is still searching. And if we are attracted to the wrong folks, how to we go about changing what we like in order to have what we need, or do we??? I'm attracted to people just as insane as me, hit and miss...how can I be wrong people, I'm a responsible American! 
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It's hard to see what you NEED when your blinded by what you WANT!!!
Interesting...I think I am generally attracted by some mis-guided "need" - you know, that "someone to complete" me stuff. I think when you just choose because you WANT someone, it can be healthier and you stay in control of your emotions more. Maybe it's must semantics.
I don't know, seems like when people know you care, they start acting like fools, lol. Well that goes for me, for sure! But it's more like the "I've got a crush" idiocy mode...I get tongue-tied and stupid like nobody's business. It's ridiculous...I'm old enough NOT to behave like I'm in Jr. High! Egads!
Omg, are we related, lol. I do the same thing. We have to start acting like we don't give a crap. For some reason, people respond to that better, lol. act like a badazz..it works GREAT Don't go there mister
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