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i shouldnt really say anything, ive slept with women old enough to be my mom, but ive never heard one say, "Hey big boy, why dont you come stick your____ up my ____ and ___ inside me". That would be just,,, never mind.
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having a 40 yeaar old speaking to you is fine but when they adress you with a "hey baby, i want ____ you and put my __ in your ___" thats pushing it. not only am i 20 years younger, no woman should be adressed that waay. especially when they are young enough t be your daughter or your daughters friend. Regardless of age... no woman should be talked to that way. We all deserve respect... and that is far from it... Just know your boundaries and don't take anything less than what you would want. |
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Edited by
2KidsMom
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Sun 03/08/09 08:48 AM
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Ya, theres an age filter but not a 'level of perv' filter. Too bad theres no: I will accept emails from members who have sent <5 pervy emails to other members. I will accept emails from members who have sent >5 pervy emails to other members.  
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i didn't say a relationship would be possible,
but thinking of experience and comfort levels. one must consider how you approach someone younger. and just because the government believes a 12 year old is ready for a relationship, it doesnt meaan that everyone of them is informed and ready to be with a 50 yeaar old. therefore, men should know that there is a boundary and there should be respect for comfort and just think of how you would feel if that were your daughter. |
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Ya, theres an age filter but not a 'level of perv' filter. Too bad theres no: I will accept emails from members who have sent <5 pervy emails to other members. I will accept emails from members who have sent >5 pervy emails to other members. |
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consentual sex at 12, drinking at 19, canada is a tad different.
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having a 40 yeaar old speaking to you is fine but when they adress you with a "hey baby, i want ____ you and put my __ in your ___" thats pushing it. not only am i 20 years younger, no woman should be adressed that waay. especially when they are young enough t be your daughter or your daughters friend. The problem is that creeps comer in ALL ages. I almost went to prison because of an 11 year old girl chasing after me during a party I was at and insisting I 'Knock Boots' with her. When I asked her mother what was going on and told her her daughter was creeping my (at the time) 32 year old self out badly and asked her what the heck was going on, I got to have a long conversation with the local PD. Needless to say mom flipped out on me, called the police, got in a fight with three of the women who not only witnessed me trying to get away from the girl but likewise told me to tell her mom which I did. After I had a long talk with child social services, the police, and her father I was let off the hook. Turns out the uncle got her sexually active. Turns out the uncle was also hitting on mom as well. So if you want to talk a about creepy it comes in all flavors. Not all of us "older" guys have such an utter lack of disrespect to describe what we would like to do to you sexually. Some of us really are looking for a real relationship for our reasons and others just like to talk to someone unpolluted by the BS a lot of women our age seem to be tainted with. If a guy comes on to you telling you what he would like to stick where on you tell him you are totally into dominating men and have something you would like to stick in him and where and insist it is gas powered and longer than a horse's leg. Assure him you will painfully break him in. If that don't get them to back off fast you have a real FREAK on your hands. Some of us "Older" guys actually do have a heart. Try a little less treading on all of us like that. It is unfair to us real men out there. Believe me. More often than not if a guy my age flashes money and even remote interest in a 18 year old girl they usually try to lay claim on him immediately. Like I said, I can't count the number of times I see MUCH younger arm trophies under the arms of really creepy rich guys. |
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having a 40 yeaar old speaking to you is fine but when they adress you with a "hey baby, i want ____ you and put my __ in your ___" thats pushing it. not only am i 20 years younger, no woman should be adressed that waay. especially when they are young enough t be your daughter or your daughters friend. The problem is that creeps comer in ALL ages. I almost went to prison because of an 11 year old girl chasing after me during a party I was at and insisting I 'Knock Boots' with her. When I asked her mother what was going on and told her her daughter was creeping my (at the time) 32 year old self out badly and asked her what the heck was going on, I got to have a long conversation with the local PD. Needless to say mom flipped out on me, called the police, got in a fight with three of the women who not only witnessed me trying to get away from the girl but likewise told me to tell her mom which I did. After I had a long talk with child social services, the police, and her father I was let off the hook. Turns out the uncle got her sexually active. Turns out the uncle was also hitting on mom as well. So if you want to talk a about creepy it comes in all flavors. Not all of us "older" guys have such an utter lack of disrespect to describe what we would like to do to you sexually. Some of us really are looking for a real relationship for our reasons and others just like to talk to someone unpolluted by the BS a lot of women our age seem to be tainted with. If a guy comes on to you telling you what he would like to stick where on you tell him you are totally into dominating men and have something you would like to stick in him and where and insist it is gas powered and longer than a horse's leg. Assure him you will painfully break him in. If that don't get them to back off fast you have a real FREAK on your hands. Some of us "Older" guys actually do have a heart. Try a little less treading on all of us like that. It is unfair to us real men out there. Believe me. More often than not if a guy my age flashes money and even remote interest in a 18 year old girl they usually try to lay claim on him immediately. Like I said, I can't count the number of times I see MUCH younger arm trophies under the arms of really creepy rich guys. your absolutely right, you all shouldnt be judged and im sure there are lots of decent guys. its just how your approached i suppose. but once you are spoken to that waay, your natural instinct is to avoid another situation like it. |
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Hi
 Welcome to the site.
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young with still alot to learn about the world around you. guarded as you are may be better then being open and getting hurt. but then where's the fun in that? which slides us over to another topic on the forums
http://mingle2.com/topic/show/210056 |
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having a 40 yeaar old speaking to you is fine but when they adress you with a "hey baby, i want ____ you and put my __ in your ___" thats pushing it. not only am i 20 years younger, no woman should be adressed that waay. especially when they are young enough t be your daughter or your daughters friend. The problem is that creeps comer in ALL ages. I almost went to prison because of an 11 year old girl chasing after me during a party I was at and insisting I 'Knock Boots' with her. When I asked her mother what was going on and told her her daughter was creeping my (at the time) 32 year old self out badly and asked her what the heck was going on, I got to have a long conversation with the local PD. Needless to say mom flipped out on me, called the police, got in a fight with three of the women who not only witnessed me trying to get away from the girl but likewise told me to tell her mom which I did. After I had a long talk with child social services, the police, and her father I was let off the hook. Turns out the uncle got her sexually active. Turns out the uncle was also hitting on mom as well. So if you want to talk a about creepy it comes in all flavors. Not all of us "older" guys have such an utter lack of disrespect to describe what we would like to do to you sexually. Some of us really are looking for a real relationship for our reasons and others just like to talk to someone unpolluted by the BS a lot of women our age seem to be tainted with. If a guy comes on to you telling you what he would like to stick where on you tell him you are totally into dominating men and have something you would like to stick in him and where and insist it is gas powered and longer than a horse's leg. Assure him you will painfully break him in. If that don't get them to back off fast you have a real FREAK on your hands. Some of us "Older" guys actually do have a heart. Try a little less treading on all of us like that. It is unfair to us real men out there. Believe me. More often than not if a guy my age flashes money and even remote interest in a 18 year old girl they usually try to lay claim on him immediately. Like I said, I can't count the number of times I see MUCH younger arm trophies under the arms of really creepy rich guys. your absolutely right, you all shouldnt be judged and im sure there are lots of decent guys. its just how your approached i suppose. but once you are spoken to that waay, your natural instinct is to avoid another situation like it. I can sympathies but recoiling in fear is giving into fear. From my perspective the best advise I can offer you in your undertaking is to fight back your heart and hormones and do not jump for anything or any one. In reality focus more on yourself! What you have been taught about "traditional" values are a lie to the reality of the world. You are going to run across a lot and I mean A LOT of self interested people who are in relationships for themselves and their self gratification! The reality of the world is that everyone wants new and prettier things. In the more animal sense of it (instinctually speaking) younger females are attracted to older males because the older males are proven survivors while younger males have not proven their survivability. Now granted we are humans BUT we are likewise given to instinctual urges like any animals and the same things that drive and motivate an animal drive us as well. Likewise older males are drawn to younger females because the chances of healthier offspring are better! That is the most rudimentary expression of the law of attraction in animals! A real good player will sound so nice and be SUCH the gentleman until you give in and suddenly the day after he isn't calling you many more. Age has nothing to do with relationships or sex. Set your standards for your reasons but it helps to be a little more diplomatic about it. It does not sound as harsh if you just say you are not interested in being involved with someone of a certain age bracket instead of calling us creepy older guys. Allow me to pose a hypothetical question to you... Who would you rather be involved with given a choice... A 41 year old guy who treats you like a goddess and does honestly honor you or some cute 24 year old who is screwing every girl he can get his hands on? Believe me, I do not walk on water myself. It is hard not getting sucked into people's attitudes on this site as well. As a rule of thumb I try hard to maintain a certain code of conduct but at least once I got mad and let some lesbians have it hard verbally (if you can call posting that) with a rather graphic description of why I didn't have to feel like my manhood was threatened. Needless to say I got flagged on it by a moderator and I apologized because I did overstep good taste and proper decorum. Don't let others suck you into their little world of games and drama. Likewise do not be afraid to call anybody out stepping on you with disgusting and stalker like messages. In time you may get involved with an older guy on accident. You just can't see the right one coming sometimes. Heck, your ultimate relationship may be a guy ten years younger than yourself! Life can be your oyster! Only time will tell what lies out there for you! Please just take your time in your hunt for true love! |
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welcom and best of luck to you
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heey, neew to this and not really sure what i'm looking for BUT friendships are more than welcome and i reply to all messages, don't let my profile throw you off. i'm just not here for sex or really old guys who can cleaarly tell im 18.  Welcome and good luck sweetheart
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hi and welcome
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Girls want a lot of things from one guy.Conversely, guys want one thing from a lot of girls. |
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Girls want a lot of things from one guy.Conversely, guys want one thing from a lot of girls. ^^^ very well saaid. |
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friends are great the more the better and friends of all ages can give you a different point of view.
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