I know girls get emotionally attached rather quickly.
but honestly, there are a lot of guys out there that hurt just as much as we do and have yet to express it because of the whole "masculine" imaage. i'm not making **** up, i have 7 brothers.
it's just awful that girls categorize all males as jerks, which all of us are guilty of after a couple bad experiences..but is it really fair? do guys really hurt just as much as we do? and can they love as fully?

Don't make me bleed my own blood and I won't drop a tear.

I just want to find a few dozen amazing women who can prove to me that they all are not the same!

ahha, you deff won't find them here..
at leaast, i doubt it :p

Yeah, Guys really hurt that much. Through raised levels of testosterone, and a basic instinct of foolish pride, we seem to tuck it away til were alone. Theres no denying women get attached alot quicker than men because theyre looking for something out of it from the get go, guys tend to take it one day at a time. If he is with her for more than a month, and someting tragic happens, he's gunna hurt, and any guy that says different is a bulls**ter!

Speaking of categorizing, it sounds as though you are doing just that.

Women can be very harsh, it's sad but true. I have learned through this site that men are indeed loving and caring, and find it so sad that it took me this long in my life to realize that men really DO love women for more than a roll in the hay...I suppose it's because I have always given my all to any relationship and never got that back...and never felt that I actually deserved to be loved, therefore, felt it impossible for men to have "real feelings". It simply takes that ONE PERSON to make us realize that the feelings are in each of us.

Men r amazing creatures. They hurt and feel just like is. If your a woman who really loves them. You know how to handle that side of them. I've had many bad boys cry in my arms

i am continually AmAzEd 8^)

Wow....harsh...and from one of our own.....

not at all :)

i'm stating the truuth and looking someone that agrees.

eh, love develops, not something thats just there. A guy looking for marrage form the get go is after a green card.

I agree that both men and women get hurt on the internet...it's the nautre of the beast. But I refuse to catergorize one as always complaining that they are MORE hurt than their counterparts.....maybe we just show it in different ways.....

Internet, outside the computer, they hurt evrywhere. Ive had a women or two tell me i couldnt possibly hurt worsr than them. guess what, not true.

WOW...sounds like you need to spend more time in the forums and get to know the "real" people here. So sorry you feel this way because this site is FULL of amazing people

<<<Was only commenting on internet stuff, but knows that it happens in real life too, sir.

there was a reply, but i missed it!

s'ok, she said ":p"

Ive found some really amazing women on this site who shared many qualities, good times and laughs. Id like to think il find the one here (thought i did once) But who knows that the future holds. Not all guys are looking for tail only.

i realize that,
good luck.