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Okk well I been friends widd this girl for 6 years going now and ii have ahda crush on her since high school but shes got a boyfriend...And juss recently ii told her that ii liked her and now shes trying to hookup with me but heres the problem her boyfriend is my bestfriend and ii dont know what to do  Which is more important to you? Her or him?
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If she cheats on him with you then most likely she'll cheat on YOU with HIM or anyone else that comes along...
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Forget the woman. Concentrate on your education. Hard.... whats widd dat post? ii dont thing itt was vary nise |
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Go ahead and post a pic of her will judge which one to keep
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i think it all comes down to morals and what type of person you want to be,now about the person you want to be with..do you really want to be with someone that would screw over your best friend..think that the same thing wont happen to you..if you do youre WRONG..seen it happen too many times ..
...and if youre any kind of friend you wouldnt even consider it,its not always easy being a good friend,but thats what makes them a friend you can trust,and if you cant trust your best friend ,then why bother having any friends at all ....jmo |
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I like her alot but at the smae time ii dont wanna lose my betsfriend what so ever....And ii have been trying to stay back n she keeps messaging me telling me he doesnt have to know things lyke that
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Forget the woman. Concentrate on your education. Hard.... whats widd dat post? ii dont thing itt was vary nise Did anyone tell you I was nice? |
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Edited by
trsmith22
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Sat 03/07/09 03:47 PM
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Forget the woman. Concentrate on your education. Hard.... whats widd dat post? ii dont thing itt was vary nise Did anyone tell you I was nice? I absolutely love Mighty Mouse!!!   |
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if she wants to date you, she has to break up with him first-it's the right thing to do. if she wants to see you behind his back-she isn't behaving like a nice person. you don't want to date someone who isn't nice, do you? who does things behind her boyfriend's back? i think you are probably both better off without her and maybe in her next relationship she'll try honesty.......since you value your best friend and friendship lasts forever-you could also consider having someone else tell him she is doing this and you are resisting her-then he'll know you are a great friend.
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but the fact is that you would know and if youre any kind of friend you wont mess with her..end case scenario..if you mess with her you will eventually lose a good friend and the girl,girls come and go but a good friend is hard to find.. ..is a piece of azz worth losing a good friend over,if it is then you dont value your friendships.. ..it takes a deceant person to pass up temptation but sometimes you do just because its the right thing,, ..if you like the girl ..then tell her if the situation was different but you cant screw your friend over..doesnt it bother you that she would.. how bad do you think you would feel if the situation was reversed and she was your girlfriend wanting to screw your friend,what would you hope your friend would do .. the golden rule applies ...jmo |
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They been dating 2 months but have been having alot of problems....hes hooked upp widd 3 girls while dating her and ii dont wanna be the one to tell her that arre yoou tyyping onn aa phoone oor sommething? ii thiink uur pushhing ii's toooo muchh Okay, let me get this straight. They've been dating for two months, he's been cheating on her, and you don't want to tell her that. You told her that you want her, she says she wants you. She wants to cheat on him with you, but she doesn't want to leave him, she only wants to keep it a secret. You're confused because you want to be with her, she wants to be with you in secret, and you don't know if you should tell your best friend about all of it. Wow. Sounds like a Jerry Springer episode. I'm guessing you like to deal with a whole lot of unnecessary drama, but let me put it simply. If you don't mind losing the best friend and most likely the girl (cuz she'll end up cheating on you or realizing that she doesn't like you as much as she liked him), or they'll both agree to passing her around like a plate of nachos. Hmm.... both choices sound pretty lame to me. I say forget about her and hope he dumps her soon so she's out of both your lives. |
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if she wants to date you, she has to break up with him first-it's the right thing to do. if she wants to see you behind his back-she isn't behaving like a nice person. you don't want to date someone who isn't nice, do you? who does things behind her boyfriend's back? i think you are probably both better off without her and maybe in her next relationship she'll try honesty.......since you value your best friend and friendship lasts forever-you could also consider having someone else tell him she is doing this and you are resisting her-then he'll know you are a great friend. |
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They been dating 2 months but have been having alot of problems....hes hooked upp widd 3 girls while dating her and ii dont wanna be the one to tell her that arre yoou tyyping onn aa phoone oor sommething? ii thiink uur pushhing ii's toooo muchh Okay, let me get this straight. They've been dating for two months, he's been cheating on her, and you don't want to tell her that. You told her that you want her, she says she wants you. She wants to cheat on him with you, but she doesn't want to leave him, she only wants to keep it a secret. You're confused because you want to be with her, she wants to be with you in secret, and you don't know if you should tell your best friend about all of it. Wow. Sounds like a Jerry Springer episode. I'm guessing you like to deal with a whole lot of unnecessary drama, but let me put it simply. If you don't mind losing the best friend and most likely the girl (cuz she'll end up cheating on you or realizing that she doesn't like you as much as she liked him), or they'll both agree to passing her around like a plate of nachos. Hmm.... both choices sound pretty lame to me. I say forget about her and hope he dumps her soon so she's out of both your lives. |
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