Ok not sure why this is but people sure love to be added as a friend
but when you try talking to them it's like talking to a brick wall?? I
have sent messages to people that wanted to be added to my friends
group, and they sure do read my messages, but never send anything back??
Not even a hello. I am sorry but that's just rude in my book. This has
happened about 4-5 times recently. Not sure what everyone is up to on
this site but it's gettin on my nerves. I write short, polite messages,
nothing crazy and I get crap for it, nothing! I don't expect everyone to
reply but gees, at least a formal acknowledgment would be nice, no? What
is it, my Old Navy shirt or something, is that not cool anymore, or is
there something in my profile that looks a little off? Sorry just had to
vent. I am trying to meet new people and seem to get nowhere. But hey
the people in these forums have been totally cool, so not bashing you
guys at all. You rock!!

I dont know why people do this,, Thier really is no excuse a little note
to say hello got your note thank you,,, of I got your note I am busy
will get back to you later,,,, Heck Sweetie I dont now,,, Consideration
would be nice, considering they are
on your friends list, its not like you have not spoken to them
before... Sorry I guess I was of no help,,,

(( Hugs )))

Humm my advise if they don't respond and on your friends list delete and
find new ones that will take the time to at least respond to your
e-mails. I at least respond to every e-mail I get. Regardless what it is
about. Always in a polite way it is only showing respect. One can not
get respect if they are not willing to give it in the first place. Good
luck in what ever you decide to to

yeah, and serious what's the point of people wanting to be added as a
friend if your not gonna talk to them?? Seems like friend padding to me.
And I don't expect people to write back quickly or anything. I am
totally not pushy in any way. Seems like the old saying of "Nice guys
finish last" is alive and well for me.

i agree

but maybe it is a matrerial status thing

if yer feeling they are not really your friend ya could try deleting
them

If that was the case I would have to delete nearly everyone out of my
group. Probably keep 2 around that have been pretty cool though.

I don't know why either. I believe in being polite and answering
back. Even if its just hi... If their friends they should
respond...

Yeah I wondered that too. But hey I can't lie. I am divorced. I am not
gonna put just single, cause then later I would have to explain the
whole divorce thing and it would be a surprise to some. It wasn't even a
messy divorce or anything, we parted ways and avoided the drama, it was
actually very easy, a little sad yes, but not as bad as I had thought.

I don't know why either. Delete them and move on to the more courtious
folks here...... (we out number them)

Ha! Will do. yeah I should stick to just the forums, you guys are
always so cool and nice in here, and I mean everyone, I haven't met one
rude person yet on these boards, cheers to all!!

hey i have my friends,and i love them all thats why i added them..but i
dont always write them or they me,but when im upset or not happy they
write me,so thats when it should matter!!!love ya all..hugsss

That's True I guess. Hey I feel alot better now though having got that
out and being able to vent. Thanks for listening to my *****ing
everyone, hehe. I shall Take your advice and run with it.

Some people are real jerks. Common curtisy has become a endangered
spiecies. Drop me a line .
Pat

Hey thanks. And for all I know my e-mail thing might be busted or
something and I am freaking out for no reason. In that case I am being
the rude one. Knowing my luck that's probably what happened.