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Topic: Do opposites really.....
lovethelord Joined Sun 01/11/09 Posts: 1399	Wed 03/04/09 09:40 AM
attract?

therapy30 Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 1799	Wed 03/04/09 09:41 AM
yes

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Wed 03/04/09 09:42 AM
yes, but they usually don't last long

revolution Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 489	Wed 03/04/09 09:43 AM
not for me......I like someone who is similar to myself...

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Wed 03/04/09 09:43 AM
yes and then they argue a lot and smash things and beat each other up and part on bad terms

DragonFlyTat Joined Fri 08/29/08 Posts: 3759	Wed 03/04/09 09:43 AM
yes but to many opposites send them running in opposite directions

trsmith22 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 5959	Wed 03/04/09 09:44 AM
they do attract but......they aren't meant for anything permanent.

lovethelord Joined Sun 01/11/09 Posts: 1399	Wed 03/04/09 09:47 AM
yes and then they argue a lot and smash things and beat each other up and part on bad terms

lovethelord Joined Sun 01/11/09 Posts: 1399	Wed 03/04/09 09:49 AM
attract? I think being together with an opposite works because were one is week he helps the other or in some weird way it evens out.. I think we are attracted to those different to us.. in some ways...

Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507	Wed 03/04/09 09:53 AM
I think it depends on the ppl....i believe Dan n I r opposites in many ways...and i also believe we learn from eachother , his strengths r my weaknesses, and vice versa.

therapy30 Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 1799	Wed 03/04/09 09:55 AM
now a days same also attracts...depends on you

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Wed 03/04/09 10:03 AM
hmmm good question. But I find that no matter if your "opposites" or "alike" it only matters if your FULLY committed to making a relationship work.....Most people aren't sad to say.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 03/04/09 10:09 AM Edited by lilith401 on Wed 03/04/09 10:09 AM
To me, that question sounds like this: Is it true you are supposed to put butter on a burn?

therapy30 Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 1799	Wed 03/04/09 10:10 AM


lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 03/04/09 10:14 AM
Sorry.... LtL, got to tell you... Peccy and Mirror are quite used to my candor. Hope you get used to it...

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 03/04/09 10:16 AM
I dont think that any 2 people are EXACTLY the same. You can have similar traits/thoughts but there are always some things that are different........like shoe size!!!

lovethelord Joined Sun 01/11/09 Posts: 1399	Wed 03/04/09 12:50 PM
Sorry.... LtL, got to tell you... Peccy and Mirror are quite used to my candor. Hope you get used to it... I am loving it.... When you posted somewhere before and clownman called me a churchgirl I wanted to ask him would he like being called clownman?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 03/04/09 01:05 PM
attract? I found my opposite on here and I certainly wasnt attracted to her

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 03/04/09 01:06 PM
Sorry.... LtL, got to tell you... Peccy and Mirror are quite used to my candor. Hope you get used to it...

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Wed 03/04/09 01:06 PM
I think it depends on the ppl....i believe Dan n I r opposites in many ways...and i also believe we learn from eachother , his strengths r my weaknesses, and vice versa. My strength is peeing standing up without getting my feet wet