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Topic: Single, never married
rickfw's photo
Tue 03/03/09 08:06 AM
i have a buddy like that when he got out of the marines he bought a house and moved his mom from texas to live closer to the rest of the family he spends a lot of time with his neices and nephews hes just a very and if you dont like him for who he is he doesnt care
now im pretty sure he is the exception to the rule since he has his house,car and condo paid off and money in a 401k

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 03/03/09 08:09 AM


No, it shouldn't be so hard. But, it is. And, the FWB will definitely complicate things. Sometimes I am positive it is better to just stay out of relationships. Of course, then someone comes along who just makes ya smile real big. bigsmile


I'm to the point where I think you are right. Maybe what I've got right now is as good as it's going to get? Why mess with it or try to change it? Or enter anyone else into it? scared


No, I don't think that is as good as it gets. I just think it's REALLY hard to find someone who is right for you (or me). If you want more emotionally from a relationship than you should keep looking. Keep trying. I guess I should take my own advice. Recent experiences just have me extremely doubtful of anyone out there with any substance.


lilith401's photo
Tue 03/03/09 08:11 AM
April is my deadline.... there is an event this month (professional) that should enlighten me though.

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 03/03/09 08:12 AM
what do you mean, April is your deadline?

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/03/09 08:19 AM
I mailed ya, Ruth...


Oh, and I expressed my frustration at how hard it was to gain information.... I got a let's try again what do you want to know message. rant yawn

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 03/03/09 08:26 AM

I mailed ya, Ruth...


Oh, and I expressed my frustration at how hard it was to gain information.... I got a let's try again what do you want to know message. rant yawn


Ok, fair enough. You gonna give him another chance?

Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 03/03/09 08:27 AM
over 40, and no kids,

i bet he has lots and lots and lots of toys,


lilith401's photo
Tue 03/03/09 08:28 AM


I mailed ya, Ruth...


Oh, and I expressed my frustration at how hard it was to gain information.... I got a let's try again what do you want to know message. rant yawn


Ok, fair enough. You gonna give him another chance?


Yeah, I did and he gave me the whole you have to call me 'cus I don't express myself well in writing line.

Winx's photo
Tue 03/03/09 08:29 AM

over 40, and no kids,

i bet he has lots and lots and lots of toys,




My brother is in his 40's and has no kids and has two houses in 2 states.:wink:

no photo
Tue 03/03/09 08:30 AM



I mailed ya, Ruth...


Oh, and I expressed my frustration at how hard it was to gain information.... I got a let's try again what do you want to know message. rant yawn


Ok, fair enough. You gonna give him another chance?


Yeah, I did and he gave me the whole you have to call me 'cus I don't express myself well in writing line.


I've heard that line so many times. whoa

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 03/03/09 08:32 AM



I mailed ya, Ruth...


Oh, and I expressed my frustration at how hard it was to gain information.... I got a let's try again what do you want to know message. rant yawn


Ok, fair enough. You gonna give him another chance?


Yeah, I did and he gave me the whole you have to call me 'cus I don't express myself well in writing line.


I know some people (men more so than women) do have a hard time expressing themselves through writing. but, when you meet online you have to realize that it's a necessary first step. And, how long it goes on in writing depends on both parties. If one is comfortable moving to the next level than you have to stay put. Or leave if you really don't like it.

michiganman3's photo
Tue 03/03/09 08:40 AM
Now what about the guy who is divorced twice, still paying child support, paying off debts from marriage.
But is educated and employed, a real career. ?????

Red Flags???

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/03/09 08:41 AM

Now what about the guy who is divorced twice, still paying child support, paying off debts from marriage.
But is educated and employed, a real career. ?????

Red Flags???


Not as many, actually.

michiganman3's photo
Tue 03/03/09 08:42 AM


Now what about the guy who is divorced twice, still paying child support, paying off debts from marriage.
But is educated and employed, a real career. ?????

Red Flags???


Not as many, actually.


Then there is hope????

laugh


lilith401's photo
Tue 03/03/09 08:43 AM
There is just something about a guy who has never married and has no children that gets me thinking... ohhhhhhh no.

At least a man with significant ties, a man who has tried or put himself out there.... I can believe this man might know how to love, or wants to try, that he believes in love, that he might want a relationship....

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