Topic: Single, never married
lilith401's photo
Tue 03/03/09 07:46 AM
Last person I encountered said he was Jewish, thought he should marry a Jewish person... but never dated Jewish women. So he just never asked anyone to marry him.

That was his answer.

michiganman3's photo
Tue 03/03/09 07:46 AM


WINXflowerforyou


Morning, M. Michiganman.happy flowerforyou



Good Morning Winxflowerforyou

Winx's photo
Tue 03/03/09 07:46 AM

I've actually had some men tell me they think something is wrong with me since I'm 30, never been married and have no kids.



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lilith401's photo
Tue 03/03/09 07:47 AM
He is 44.

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/03/09 07:48 AM
Sweets... there is nothing wrong with you, dear!

Winx's photo
Tue 03/03/09 07:49 AM

Last person I encountered said he was Jewish, thought he should marry a Jewish person... but never dated Jewish women. So he just never asked anyone to marry him.

That was his answer.


That screams "fear of commitment" to me.

Winx's photo
Tue 03/03/09 07:49 AM



WINXflowerforyou


Morning, M. Michiganman.happy flowerforyou



Good Morning Winxflowerforyou


:smile: flowers

no photo
Tue 03/03/09 07:50 AM
Thanks ladies :smile:. A random guy from here IMed me the other day, seriously asking what was wrong since I'm still single with no children. That conversation didn't last long.

beachbum069's photo
Tue 03/03/09 07:51 AM

Thanks ladies :smile:. A random guy from here IMed me the other day, seriously asking what was wrong since I'm still single with no children. That conversation didn't last long.

I think you're alright Emily.:wink:

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 03/03/09 07:53 AM
It depends on whether or not he had any long term relationships. More people today are opting not to get married (I personally don't see the reason for marriage at all) and also not to have kids. Both my sisters and their husbands have decided not to have children. Two of my best friends are not having children. I think it's more common these days.

no photo
Tue 03/03/09 07:53 AM


Thanks ladies :smile:. A random guy from here IMed me the other day, seriously asking what was wrong since I'm still single with no children. That conversation didn't last long.

I think you're alright Emily.:wink:


flowerforyou

prisoner's photo
Tue 03/03/09 07:54 AM
:smile: i'm 43 never married (by choice,i have a bachelor's taste for freedom) i'm not sure i would want to bring a child into this God-forsaken world i'm relatively content be seeing you

michiganman3's photo
Tue 03/03/09 07:54 AM

I've actually had some men tell me they think something is wrong with me since I'm 30, never been married and have no kids.


Nothing wrong with that.

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/03/09 07:55 AM
OMG..... I had to ask a follow up question to the marriage one and he said he had been in relationships...still vague.

Fricking Frack...

This should NOT be so hard. What happened to being interested and talking? Dudes want me to call them or give out my number after five minutes. Why can't we e-mail first, exchanging information?

Not to mention my convuluted FWB thing and I have no idea if I even want to meet anyone else. frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

beachbum069's photo
Tue 03/03/09 07:57 AM

OMG..... I had to ask a follow up question to the marriage one and he said he had been in relationships...still vague.

Fricking Frack...

This should NOT be so hard. What happened to being interested and talking? Dudes want me to call them or give out my number after five minutes. Why can't we e-mail first, exchanging information?

Not to mention my convuluted FWB thing and I have no idea if I even want to meet anyone else. frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

I just want to buy you some eggs benedict the next time you are coming back through the area.:wink:

no photo
Tue 03/03/09 07:57 AM

OMG..... I had to ask a follow up question to the marriage one and he said he had been in relationships...still vague.

Fricking Frack...

This should NOT be so hard. What happened to being interested and talking? Dudes want me to call them or give out my number after five minutes. Why can't we e-mail first, exchanging information?

Not to mention my convuluted FWB thing and I have no idea if I even want to meet anyone else. frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated


I don't get the rush to talk on the phone. Especially if they can't bother to write anything in an email or answer any questions first.

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/03/09 07:58 AM

I just want to buy you some eggs benedict the next time you are coming back through the area.:wink:


End of June, every year. And I'll be with my kid and BFF this year too...flowerforyou

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 03/03/09 08:00 AM

OMG..... I had to ask a follow up question to the marriage one and he said he had been in relationships...still vague.

Fricking Frack...

This should NOT be so hard. What happened to being interested and talking? Dudes want me to call them or give out my number after five minutes. Why can't we e-mail first, exchanging information?

Not to mention my convuluted FWB thing and I have no idea if I even want to meet anyone else. frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated


No, it shouldn't be so hard. But, it is. And, the FWB will definitely complicate things. Sometimes I am positive it is better to just stay out of relationships. Of course, then someone comes along who just makes ya smile real big. bigsmile

beachbum069's photo
Tue 03/03/09 08:01 AM


I just want to buy you some eggs benedict the next time you are coming back through the area.:wink:


End of June, every year. And I'll be with my kid and BFF this year too...flowerforyou

Cool. My engine overhauls will be done by then.flowerforyou My son likes scrambled though.:wink:

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/03/09 08:03 AM

No, it shouldn't be so hard. But, it is. And, the FWB will definitely complicate things. Sometimes I am positive it is better to just stay out of relationships. Of course, then someone comes along who just makes ya smile real big. bigsmile


I'm to the point where I think you are right. Maybe what I've got right now is as good as it's going to get? Why mess with it or try to change it? Or enter anyone else into it? scared