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i dont know if i believe in love anymore....
a lot of things have happened to me and yea i dont know if i will ever love someone or feel the same way about someone again... its hard for me to trust people now and i feel like everything is falling apart..... i think that i love you is said too much and it really doesnt mean anything(or as much) anymore and i think that people take it for granted...... saying i love you is a HUGE step 4 me so i might say i luv u or i <3 u or i u and so on. when someone says i love you they have to mean it and if they truly do, the first time they say it to their sweetheart they should in person... otherwise in texts over the net and on the phone is not as special... |
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You'll find it again, Hon........Let it come to you though. You're a
pretty woman, don't let crap bother you. I didn't think I'd ever find anyone either.......... |
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It's hard I know, but take it from an old guy. Give it time. The ball is
on your side of the court. He's out there and he's thinking the same thing you are. One day you two will meet for real, then you'll see another side to love. Try to look forward, and you will find something to look forward to. michael |
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You got to take things one day at a time, and don't let things get to
you also got to set your boundries. There are so much people can doo to hurt another person and yes it does hurt You got to look out for yourself first and know your limits |
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I used to think the same way
BUt this wonderful lady has shown me otherwise <-------------- |
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Yessss, I know those words.
Felt the sting of deception and wanted nothing to do with the opposite sex…… for a long while. Just a thought, a pet makes a good friend to warm the heart, and allow love to flow again. |
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aww thanks u guys.
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Brooke.
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joshy ur sweet. thanks
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Good God, you're only 18. How can you possibly know how you'll feel
tomorrow, much less the rest of your life. Geez, wait until you're 50 and have been screwed over by 3 husbands, then you'll have a right not to believe in love. But guess what, I found it anyway, or rather it found me. Don't give up, just be careful who you trust with your heart. Make sure they're worthy of it, it's the most precious thing you own. You're right about one thing. I love you is said way too easily by lots of people, especially boys your age who just wanna get you in the sack. Don't believe what they say, believe what they do. Sorry, I sound like your momma now, I'll shut up! Good luck sweetie. |
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Just take one day at a time enjoy life. Love is one of those things that
come to you when you least expect it. We all at one time or other have felt the same way. Take time regroup and get to know yourself within first. Don't settle for less than you expect from a guy. Just live life and enjoy it. |
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Love comes & goes very fast, for the young. That's why it used to be
called "puppy love" (good song also). You will most likely experience many more break ups before you find the one that really counts. That's Ok. Old man told me; "Love em all a little & play the field for awhile. Life is a long trip, slow down & enjoy it." Took me 45 yrs to realize he was right & 55 yrs to make it work. So I say to you; "Slow down & enjoy life, you'll like it better." God Bless. |
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you're definition of love will change with time &
experience |
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thank u everyone.
i appreciate everything that has been said. i just have to say to bambabeecee that i have been through probably 30 times as much as a normal 18 year old so i kinda know how i feel about it rite now but of course like u said that can change. i dont really like to get into all of the relationships i have had but i will tell u it has been very hard and i know what i have been through isnt anything compared to many people but is A LOT compared to others. i value all of everones comforting thoughts and opinions as well as words of wisdom because i know many of u have been through a lot and have experienced many things. again,, thank u |
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I have serious doubts that you really know. I would bet my life on it
that someday you will have something so much greater that it belittles what you are talking about now. |
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