Topic: love......
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Mon 04/30/07 08:58 PM
i dont know if i believe in love anymore....

a lot of things have happened to me and yea i dont know if i will ever
love someone or feel the same way about someone again...

its hard for me to trust people now and i feel like everything is
falling apart.....

i think that i love you is said too much and it really doesnt mean
anything(or as much) anymore and i think that people take it for
granted......

saying i love you is a HUGE step 4 me so i might say i luv u or i <3 u
or i :heart: u and so on. when someone says i love you they have to mean
it and if they truly do, the first time they say it to their sweetheart
they should in person... otherwise in texts over the net and on the
phone is not as special...

PetiteKitten's photo
Mon 04/30/07 09:09 PM
You'll find it again, Hon........Let it come to you though. You're a
pretty woman, don't let crap bother you. I didn't think I'd ever find
anyone either..........flowerforyou

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Mon 04/30/07 09:12 PM
It's hard I know, but take it from an old guy. Give it time. The ball is
on your side of the court. He's out there and he's thinking the same
thing you are. One day you two will meet for real, then you'll see
another side to love.

Try to look forward, and you will find something to look forward to.


michael

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Mon 04/30/07 09:42 PM
You got to take things one day at a time, and don't let things get to
you also got to set your boundries. There are so much people can doo to
hurt another person and yes it does hurt

You got to look out for yourself first and know your limits

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Mon 04/30/07 09:52 PM
I used to think the same way
BUt this wonderful lady has shown me otherwise
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CampLight's photo
Mon 04/30/07 10:12 PM
Yessss, I know those words.
Felt the sting of deception and wanted nothing to do with the opposite
sex…… for a long while.
Just a thought, a pet makes a good friend to warm the heart, and allow
love to flow again.

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Mon 04/30/07 10:33 PM
aww thanks u guys. flowerforyou

Joshy44's photo
Mon 04/30/07 10:34 PM
Brooke.


:heart:

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Mon 04/30/07 10:37 PM
joshy ur sweet. thanks

bamabeecee's photo
Mon 04/30/07 10:44 PM
Good God, you're only 18. How can you possibly know how you'll feel
tomorrow, much less the rest of your life. Geez, wait until you're 50
and have been screwed over by 3 husbands, then you'll have a right not
to believe in love. But guess what, I found it anyway, or rather it
found me.

Don't give up, just be careful who you trust with your heart. Make sure
they're worthy of it, it's the most precious thing you own.

You're right about one thing. I love you is said way too easily by lots
of people, especially boys your age who just wanna get you in the sack.
Don't believe what they say, believe what they do.

Sorry, I sound like your momma now, I'll shut up! Good luck sweetie.

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 05/01/07 05:33 AM
Just take one day at a time enjoy life. Love is one of those things that
come to you when you least expect it. We all at one time or other have
felt the same way. Take time regroup and get to know yourself within
first. Don't settle for less than you expect from a guy. Just live life
and enjoy it.

oldsage's photo
Tue 05/01/07 05:42 AM
Love comes & goes very fast, for the young. That's why it used to be
called "puppy love" (good song also). You will most likely experience
many more break ups before you find the one that really counts. That's
Ok. Old man told me; "Love em all a little & play the field for awhile.
Life is a long trip, slow down & enjoy it." Took me 45 yrs to realize
he was right & 55 yrs to make it work.

So I say to you; "Slow down & enjoy life, you'll like it better."

God Bless.

davinci1952's photo
Tue 05/01/07 11:15 AM
you're definition of love will change with time &
experienceflowerforyou

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Tue 05/01/07 01:38 PM
thank u everyone. flowerforyou

i appreciate everything that has been said.

i just have to say to bambabeecee that i have been through probably 30
times as much as a normal 18 year old so i kinda know how i feel about
it rite now but of course like u said that can change. i dont really
like to get into all of the relationships i have had but i will tell u
it has been very hard and i know what i have been through isnt anything
compared to many people but is A LOT compared to others.


i value all of everones comforting thoughts and opinions as well as
words of wisdom because i know many of u have been through a lot and
have experienced many things.

again,, thank u
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

TheGodAndTheDevil's photo
Tue 05/01/07 05:41 PM
I have serious doubts that you really know. I would bet my life on it
that someday you will have something so much greater that it belittles
what you are talking about now.