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Topic: Sooo why is it???
mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Fri 02/27/09 07:39 PM
If you let a guy know you like him...he treats you poorly...and if you treat a guy poorly he wants you badly??? Why does it have to be like that?

canaryrx8 Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 361	Fri 02/27/09 07:43 PM
It's not like that with every guy, just the stupid ones.

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Fri 02/27/09 07:45 PM
note - the only consistent factor in all your disappointing relationships is you.

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Fri 02/27/09 07:45 PM
It's not like that with every guy, just the stupid ones. [/quote Seems to be the case with men I meet...why can't I just be myself and like someone and have them like me back? Shouldn't it be that easy?

Shadylady131 Joined Wed 12/31/08 Posts: 483	Fri 02/27/09 07:45 PM
Thats the situations you want to run from.... Who needs that??

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Fri 02/27/09 07:45 PM
note - the only consistent factor in all your disappointing relationships is you. SO this means I like the wrong ones?

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Fri 02/27/09 07:45 PM
It's not like that with every guy, just the stupid ones. Yup, I agree with this 100%. Make that 105%. Not every guy is like that.

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Fri 02/27/09 07:49 PM
note - the only consistent factor in all your disappointing relationships is you. SO this means I like the wrong ones? Perhaps try something new and different. or just roll with it. idn. i dont have that problem but what i DO know is that most of the problems we face on a day to day basis are caused by ourselves. jmo.

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Fri 02/27/09 07:55 PM
It isn't like that.....unless you've found yourself the wrong guy.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Fri 02/27/09 07:56 PM
note - the only consistent factor in all your disappointing relationships is you. Good one!!

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Fri 02/27/09 07:59 PM Edited by Jeanniebean on Fri 02/27/09 08:00 PM
If you let a guy know you like him...he treats you poorly...and if you treat a guy poorly he wants you badly??? Why does it have to be like that? 1. If you let a guy know you like him.... if he likes you, he will be thrilled. If he is not thrilled, then he is just not that into you.. what would you want with him? 2. If you treat a guy poorly and he appears to want you badly it is because he is curious why you think your are such hot sh*t and he wants to find out. LOL

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Fri 02/27/09 08:01 PM
Yeah, it happens. I don't understand it either. So if she's not into me, leave it behind.

TheresMyFriend Joined Sat 05/19/07 Posts: 2565	Fri 02/27/09 08:03 PM
It could be the old idea of "supply and demand", or it may have something to do with the "chase"! JMO But like the other guy said...not all are like that!

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Fri 02/27/09 08:10 PM
Do anyone also think it has something to that thinking "you have to be cruel to be kind?" I know part of it is Machismo. That and some people are very relationship challenged...

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Fri 02/27/09 08:11 PM
Not all men are like that.. But I will say not all men know what they want... unless its a baseball bat to the head to wake them up.. ( some men are in need of this)

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 02/27/09 08:12 PM
If you let a guy know you like him...he treats you poorly...and if you treat a guy poorly he wants you badly??? Why does it have to be like that? That's not the case with me.

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Fri 02/27/09 08:20 PM
Not all men are like that.. But I will say not all men know what they want... unless its a baseball bat to the head to wake them up.. ( some men are in need of this) bingo!!! we have a winner!!! but if someone treats you "badly" i would think it would only get worse it also helps to think like a guy...

TenTigers Joined Thu 02/05/09 Posts: 165	Fri 02/27/09 08:24 PM
I could easily turn this question around... Why is it when you treat a woman like schitt, she falls madly for you. But if you are a gentleman, you get rejected for the douche-bag?

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Fri 02/27/09 08:31 PM
We like a challenge

scoundrel Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 5960	Sat 02/28/09 01:26 PM
If you let a guy know you like him...he treats you poorly...and if you treat a guy poorly he wants you badly??? Why does it have to be like that? Pick your man. Pick your timing/circumstance. Kick him. It's been that way, since kindergarten. Why change what works?