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Topic: Why don't guys reply?
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Fri 02/27/09 06:28 PM
Why is it that when I "nudge" a guy, he doesn't even reply? I even emailed a guy here on Mingle who said he'd reply if a woman did more than just nudge. He hasn't even been true to his word. Why is this?

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Fri 02/27/09 06:29 PM

Why is it that when I "nudge" a guy, he doesn't even reply? I even emailed a guy here on Mingle who said he'd reply if a woman did more than just nudge. He hasn't even been true to his word. Why is this?




bigsmile I have no idea Lindaflowerforyou

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Fri 02/27/09 06:31 PM
Damn, it sure is frustrating!

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Fri 02/27/09 06:35 PM
i always reply to a nudge but sometimes my nudger doesnt work.

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Fri 02/27/09 06:35 PM
flowerforyou keep posting in forumsflowerforyouI'm sure an interested guy will emailflowerforyou

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Fri 02/27/09 06:36 PM
Alot of guys visit my profile but don't write. The ones I've nudged or emailed don't answer. Is it me or maybe I need a revamp on my profile.

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Fri 02/27/09 06:38 PM
flowerforyou I'd put a face pic up as mainflowerforyou and adding more pics would be goodflowerforyou

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Fri 02/27/09 06:39 PM
Is that better?

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Fri 02/27/09 06:40 PM

i always reply to a nudge but sometimes my nudger doesnt work.


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Fri 02/27/09 06:40 PM
Simple answerthink ...Most guys{not all} are @ssesindifferent

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Fri 02/27/09 06:40 PM

Is that better?
yesflowerforyou thats a lovely picflowerforyou

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Fri 02/27/09 06:41 PM
Mine works right now. I was thinking, the ones I nudge or email are the ones that have looked at my profile. Is it my profile? anyone?

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Fri 02/27/09 06:41 PM
Thank you.

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Fri 02/27/09 06:43 PM
flowerforyou You seem like a nice person to meflowerforyou

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Fri 02/27/09 06:43 PM

Mine works right now. I was thinking, the ones I nudge or email are the ones that have looked at my profile. Is it my profile? anyone?


drinker yesbigsmile

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Fri 02/27/09 06:44 PM
I like most of the people here on Mingle. They've all been so nice to me and I've made a few friends.

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Fri 02/27/09 06:54 PM

Why is it that when I "nudge" a guy, he doesn't even reply? I even emailed a guy here on Mingle who said he'd reply if a woman did more than just nudge. He hasn't even been true to his word. Why is this?


dont ask....:wink:

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Fri 02/27/09 06:57 PM

Why is it that when I "nudge" a guy, he doesn't even reply? I even emailed a guy here on Mingle who said he'd reply if a woman did more than just nudge. He hasn't even been true to his word. Why is this?


I will never understand that kind of behavior, but I know it exists.

Not too long after I first signed up, I tried e-mailing a few of the locals who were traipsing through my "People You Might Be Interested In," basically just trying to welcome them to the site, and get some sort of dialogue going.

Not one ever bothered to reply.

I really don't think the problem was with my e-mails -- I've written two books, and most people seem to think my writing and communications skills are pretty decent, so....?

My own policy is to write everybody back -- unless it's a scammer or a spammer or some obvious nutball whackjob (which have been few and far between on this site!)
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But I won't write to anyone first anymore. I learned my lesson on that one.







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Fri 02/27/09 06:59 PM
Edited by AllSmilesInTulsa on Fri 02/27/09 07:00 PM


Why is it that when I "nudge" a guy, he doesn't even reply? I even emailed a guy here on Mingle who said he'd reply if a woman did more than just nudge. He hasn't even been true to his word. Why is this?


I will never understand that kind of behavior, but I know it exists.

Not too long after I first signed up, I tried e-mailing a few of the locals who were traipsing through my "People You Might Be Interested In," basically just trying to welcome them to the site, and get some sort of dialogue going.

Not one ever bothered to reply.

I really don't think the problem was with my e-mails -- I've written two books, and most people seem to think my writing and communications skills are pretty decent, so....?

My own policy is to write everybody back -- unless it's a scammer or a spammer or some obvious nutball whackjob (which have been few and far between on this site!)
--

But I won't write to anyone first anymore. I learned my lesson on that one.











I was wondering why you never wrote....

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Fri 02/27/09 06:59 PM
If no one ever emails first, then there would be no communication. I'm pretty sure that people in my generation grew up with manners. What I want to know is what happened.

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