"it's not you--it's me," means when being dumped.

it means it really is you!!! and the person doesnt love or
care about you anymore

its means the gril isnt ready for a realtionhsip or she is having fmaily
profblems and she needs to work it out before she cna date you

basically it means they don't like you, but don't want to say that so
to avoid confrontation of the real problem or the **** they've been
talking about you to others they feed you that line

It's one of the oldest tricks in the book, yo.

It can either be the truth, or it can be far from the truth. Sometimes,
a person is having a very significant personal struggle, and normally,
those sorts of struggles are meant to be kept secret. Although people
say its good to completely know your partner, there are obviously parts
of yourself you'd prefer your partner not to see right?

I only know this because I had to leave somebody once, and it was the
first time in my life I'd ever done that. I've been single for 2 years
since so...obvious I wasn't lying.

If some type of struggle isn't the case, then basically...its an easy
way for a person to let you go without hurting you.

hope you get through this man, take it easy.

ahalo that was a really nice reply * smothers*

lol thanx gurl

I have no clue what other people mean when they say it. But when I say
it I simply mean that there is nothing wrong with the other person I’m
just not feeling any magic. In other words, I’m not falling
romantically in love with her.

There just isn’t any ‘magic’. Who’s fault is that? You can’t logically
decide to make magic happen.

No one is to blame. No one is at fault. There’s nothing wrong with
anyone. There just wasn’t any magic is all. At least not for her. And
that’s genuinely not your fault.

Honestly, it means that they just don't want to hurt you but the
feelings were just not there. I think its the easiest way to let someone
down...I myself would never do that. Why? Just be honest with that
person...if things are not there~~~then they are just not there!!
I have always said that I would never want someone to lie to me, so I
don't lie about things! I don't sugar coat anything. If you are not the
man for me, I am going to tell you! I believe that honesty is the best
policy.
If the feelings were not there, its better to find out before your
relationship went to far. I wish you good luck

In my experience, it means "I want to get out of this, but I want to do
it as inoffensively as possible."

it means that the chemistry just isn't there....

it means goodbye any way you look at it

polite FO

ive said that before myself...... and i meant i decided i wasnt ready to
date and hadnt realized it ...

i had other things to take care of like myself...

i think it's one of the gentlist ways to say they want to end w/e it is
the 2 of you had !!

what does this mean?

You have some pretty nice attributes!! The C5 is pretty nice too! LOL
I have a triple silver C6 Convertible.

YOU SUCKKKK

attributes could mean a couple of things.... one being features or
looks..