I just dumped my girl friend, because i heard from a co-worker that she liked someone else. I found out that the douche was lying. I Totally regret it but now the chick hates me, and i cant grow the balls to talk to her. Do i talk to he and ask her side of the story, or forget about her and move on? If so, how do i get over her, weve been dating since october...

Grow Some Balls

take it one day at a time....if that's too much....take it minute by minute

it's not much different than grieving for someone that passed away. it takes time and there are stages of grief

try to say sorry and explain....but if she doesn't want to hear it...then let it go

Thanks!

What is the point if you have already dumped her because someone else told you she likes someone else...?...Bit to late to ask her side don't you think...?

First off you need a different color hat. That one doesn't match your eyes. Not having balls will always make it difficult to keep a girlfriend. They tend to like men that have a pair. Maybe you can buy a pair somewhere?

Why wouldn't you ask her first instead of having knee jerk reaction? I don't blame her for hating you. I don't know you and already I shake my head.


Before you move on to your next train wreck, learn how to communicate with your partner.

Damn, thats a tough situation dude. It may be next to impossible. You could start by apoligizing and giving this chick sometime.

I just looked at your profile and you are 38 yrs old! That behavior is the one of a teenager, dude, get a grip!

Seriously............

Lmfao, figure of speech? Rofl, and yah, i know, that whole Relationship down the crapper for nothing. The guy just made it sound so true. >:(

Next time you see her drop your pants & say come to papa

LMFAO

Look, "balls" ought not be part of the solution...shouldn't be used to motivate oneself to doing something (in this case), and others shouldn't leverage that to incite you into doing something either...your manhood isn't being questioned and for people to do that..well, they ought to just eat s*hit and bark at the moon cause they have no idea what manhood and owning a pair is all about. In the long scheme of things, this situation is minor, may seem to be a big deal right now, but in retrospect, it will be - minor. What to do -- nothing, don't confront her about it, it will only make the situation worse..for her, and yourself. Some of your piers may try to pressure you into doing something..and she may even one day question you as to the reason why you didn't do anything...don't let it be of any influence, you are stronger than they...and if you really don't do anything and if it really doesn't bother you, then you will have a sense of power unlike no other.

Roco

p.s. -- I was in a similar situation many years ago and I took an extreme course of action...counterbalancing advice was not provided..I have provided one to you.

You probably shouldn't be in a relationship seeing as you can't seem to practice communication effectively or at all. You should have talked to her about it first before believing a rumor. That's absolutely childish.

So there goes the problem of listening to other people and not the one involved.

I think it is absolutely right of her to move on....what may come up in the future because of jealousy and "friends" or those who will say anything to cause a problem between a couple.

I think it would be better to move on with your life and learn a hard lesson. We all have too...that's life.

I am sorry for your loss....but also feel good that she didn't feel like she had to stay and possibly tolerate more of the same.
I am not trying to be mean here...just the way I feel.

Good luck.

Kat

Just keep that hat on and youll be ok......

Sounds like you owe her an apology big time. Get some balls, apologize and next time you'll know better than to react like that.

wow.

you totally deserve this.

LOL!!!

you dumped her on the word of someone else instead of talking to her and trusting her.

yeah i don't think you're ready for this kinda stuf.

regardless... i love that ski mask your sportin. if only i could knit a mustache. ;p

I'm sorry but that was just STUPID! why would you believe what some douche bag was saying about your girl before ummm maybe TALKING TO HER ABOUT IT? wow... lmao! You deserve everything! Why should she ever be with you if you can't trust her?