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Topic: hmmm
franshade's photo
Tue 02/24/09 06:11 AM

are high heels too much for a first date?


I wear heels as often as possible, but that's just because I'm short :wink: and I love shoes.

Just how high are you going? where's the date? is it a dinner date, yes to heels, is it an activity, use your judgement.

have fun and enjoy yourself flowerforyou

lovethelord's photo
Tue 02/24/09 06:14 AM

are high heels too much for a first date?


What is adate again? .. something like a raison but bigger right?

rickfw's photo
Tue 02/24/09 06:15 AM
yes if you didnt want me all over you lol have a high heel fetishbiggrin :laughing:

trgirl's photo
Tue 02/24/09 06:23 AM

It depends on where you are going, and what you might do after that .... If you have a casual dinner and then play pool, or browse a good bookstore and have coffee, or take a cooking class, or go to a basketball game, then high heels might not be your best bet. Being over dressed is not fun.

I always like to save the dressier dates for the 4th or 5th date. Then you know if he is 'high heel' worthy! :wink:

It's usually pretty warm in Cali year around, so I'm a flip flop, hoodie and mini skirt girl unless I know otherwise. waving


i am with you on this one, save the heels for later, but on the other hand they do make a handy weapon if needed.bigsmile

MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 02/24/09 11:14 AM

where are you going....is he taller than you...is he dressing up...if so by all means wear heels. I love em.


offtopic I would never date anyone the same height or shorter than me. Solves that problem! When I wear even the shortest of heels -- 4 iches -- then I stand 6.3. shocked

I LOVE wearing heels too, even with jeans! To the OP, as you can tell by the replies, the bottom line is wear what you are most comfortable wearing; that will exude sexiness and confidence.

Good luck, and tell us how it went! :thumbsup:

Mr_Music's photo
Tue 02/24/09 11:34 AM
I always like to save the dressier dates for the 4th or 5th date. Then you know if he is 'high heel' worthy! :wink:


Yes, I always wait until the 4th or 5th date too, just to see if she is 'suit and tie' worthy.

lilith401's photo
Tue 02/24/09 11:36 AM
No, they aren't. Unless with them you'll be taller than him. And, that must be doubled with you know or think that would upset him...

speedbug72's photo
Tue 02/24/09 11:38 AM
on a daate i like to wear watever with normal shoes. pool, dinner, andchat is wat i stick to. i had a date on suday a girl from another site wanted to meet. it went ok.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Tue 02/24/09 11:58 AM
I have high heels that I wear with jeans. I love 'em and if you want to wear them, go for it!

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