so whats the deal with northern women? when you hit on a profile and you ask some one to chat,there is no response.
and yes,I'm talking about,Indiana,ohio,michigan,and illinois.
a simple,and just plane (I'm not interested),would be nice and just plain courteous.?

oh they can't help it

all the women from those places have brain damage

Everyone is window shopping

That's just the way it is on dating sites. Some reply, some don't. Get used to it.

yep

just hang and join in the conversation, even if its about nothing....

Here's my theory after seeing this question about 100,000 times.. I am thinking that you being 1 are emailing quite a few.. For arguments sake let's say you email 5-10 women a week... Well, then there are oh let's say 15 other guys doing the same.. Plus the guys they're already talking to.. Now let's not leave out the female friends they have and we'll even add some male friends in there for good measure... How much time is left to answer every single email received? Are you sure they've read the email?

Finally, I doubt the northern women are any worse than southern women, it's just that you write to northern women more.. jmo...

Some people just dont respond...I have been guilty and I am sure more than half of the peeps on here are guilty of that one time or another.....but, southern women are different....try one today....LOL

only 8 posts? gotta try more than that..

What kind of emails are you sending? Perhaps that has something to do with it?

too much competition up north I guess?

I`m thinking alot of women ( men,.I don`t know ) won`t respond to IM unless previously contacted through email or the forums,..

I mean,.you won`t just open your door to a complete stranger would you ?

( if that is what your referring to by "asking someone to chat" )

and if you want to "chat" with someone,.try to come up with something first to chat about,..if you are the one ringing her bell,..

I've ben guilty of not responding too. In some cases I have no attraction to them. But in most cases, I am too busy.

Although, I do have to concur. Southern women are different. That doesn't mean that Northern women are all bad, only a few are. Just maybe you have ben contacting the wrong ones.

It's just how some dating sites go. I also respond by at least saying 'Thanks for emailing. Good luck on your search.' Some individuals don't have common courtsey to email back. I have sent out many emails and have never gotten a response back.

Just keep trying and posting on the forums will get you more exposure!

tell them you either have a horse or a barn full of cows you will be in like flint.

They don't have internet there.

It's a conspiracy. I've heard rumors of a mass kidnapping by aliens. It's hard to respond when you're all tied up on the mother ship.