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Do you have any?? What do you like/dislike about the ones you maintain?? I start laughing or giggling. Good thing - it sometimes lightens the mood. 
Bad thing - people think I'm more insane than I really am. 
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I drink beer and throw empties......it works in most cases!!! 
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yeah I use the threat of physical violence to keep people away somehow I didn't figure for the angry type
no anger at all I just calmly say "if you don't go away I'll break your nose" it always works
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I drink beer and throw empties......it works in most cases!!! I've taught you well grasshopper 
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i use a judo chop or just kick their dog ....if they have no pets i throw dung at their windows
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sand bags, barbed wire, and clymores. The good, they work very well at keeping people from sneaking up on me. The bad, not many people come to visit.
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I pee in their wheaties.
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You guys are too funny
Thanks for posting.
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Do you have any?? What do you like/dislike about the ones you maintain??  my love turns to hatred
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i usually just make fun of the person and use big words. if it escalates i will use threats of bodily harm. it usually ends there.
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laughing at something thats not very funny if im nervous or acting like an ass when someone is to close to quick dont like to let my armor down that quick
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wow nice self observations
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I work all the time...keeps em at bay....
And they can't catch me.... Works for me....
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Do you have any?? What do you like/dislike about the ones you maintain?? I keep a certain amount of distance (emotionally) with the people I deal with, even with some of my relationships. I do it because I simply don't trust the person I'm seeing as I (quite accurately) assume they'll pull a 180 on me and flake out or something. |
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I work all the time...keeps em at bay.... And they can't catch me.... Works for me....
So you use a workaholic type method to keep your time occupied from allowing your self to date. Avoidance of the situation altogether? How does that work for you? Any regrets? |
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Do you have any?? What do you like/dislike about the ones you maintain?? I keep a certain amount of distance (emotionally) with the people I deal with, even with some of my relationships. I do it because I simply don't trust the person I'm seeing as I (quite accurately) assume they'll pull a 180 on me and flake out or something. Cautious is good, how do you know when to let yourself trust in that person? Whats the longest it took for you? The shortest? |
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Do you have any?? What do you like/dislike about the ones you maintain?? I keep a certain amount of distance (emotionally) with the people I deal with, even with some of my relationships. I do it because I simply don't trust the person I'm seeing as I (quite accurately) assume they'll pull a 180 on me and flake out or something. Cautious is good, how do you know when to let yourself trust in that person? Whats the longest it took for you? The shortest? My trust in a relationship will depend on what the person I'm seeing shows me. There'll often be little cues I'll notice that will show me whether or not she's gonna be a flake or something worse. It can take anywhere from a couple of days to a couple of weeks, if not more. |
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Do you have any?? What do you like/dislike about the ones you maintain?? I keep a certain amount of distance (emotionally) with the people I deal with, even with some of my relationships. I do it because I simply don't trust the person I'm seeing as I (quite accurately) assume they'll pull a 180 on me and flake out or something. Cautious is good, how do you know when to let yourself trust in that person? Whats the longest it took for you? The shortest? My trust in a relationship will depend on what the person I'm seeing shows me. There'll often be little cues I'll notice that will show me whether or not she's gonna be a flake or something worse. It can take anywhere from a couple of days to a couple of weeks, if not more. great self observation moofooga |
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Edited by
Jess642
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Sun 02/22/09 12:47 PM
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Walking through the bushland if I come across a grumpy King Brown, (snake) my defense mechanisms are alive and well...
Up at the pub, if faced by a drunken agressive person, who is threatening, my defense mechanisms are alive and well... If there is a fire close to home, my defense mechanisms are alive and well.. If in a romantic relationship and things are not what they are supposed to be........my INSTINCTS are alive and well.. I have a strong sense of survival.
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Walking through the bushland if I come across a grumpy King Brown, (snake) my defense mechanisms are alive and well...
Up at the pub, if faced by a drunken agressive person, who is threatening, my defense mechanisms are alive and well... If there is a fire close to home, my defense mechanisms are alive and well.. If in a romantic relationship and things are not what they are supposed to be........my INSTINCTS are alive and well.. I have a strong sense of survival.
Awesome
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